Tear Soup: A Recipe for Healing After Loss

I love the poetic aspect of this story. Grandy is an elderly woman who has suffered a loss. The story never explicitly says who the loss was which I think makes the story more relatable. As she is adding ingredients to the soup she mentions certain metaphorical ideas like the "soup has to be made from scratch" and "it cannot be rushed" much like everyone has their own process to grieve and it too cannot be rushed. She mentioned all of the things she remembers about the person and how they go into her soup " “all the memories, all the misgivings, and all the tears.” I think though that this book would make anyone sad, even if you have had no recent loss *disclaimer. Both the language and illustrations of this books are stunning.

A reassuring book about the process of grief, comparing it to making a pot of tear soup. Not all soups are made the same, and the cooking time may vary widely. But this is your soup to make, just the way you need it. If sharing with children, the metaphorical narrative may confuse them without an adult to talk them through it. But then this book is meant to be shared and discussed; consider it an ingredient for your tear soup. For adult readers, it's a gentle, brief balm of reassurance and understanding, especially when it's too hard to do anything else. Seven pages of backmatter feature "Grandy's Cooking Tips," or suggestions for how grievers can move through their grief, and how friends can support others in grief. There is a list of show more online resources and support groups. show less

Great book. Excellent text. A definite 'good buy' if you or someone you love is grieving. Loved the endpaper art. Found the interior illustrations too cartoony, distracting, and simply unappealing. Concentrate on the text.
Granma looks positively creepy to me and, even grieving, nobody looks that creepy! Actually thought of re-typing out the text for myself so I could read it without having to overcome the distracting art each time I crack the book. (Which I would suggest as an idea for others who might feel the same. The authors do know whereof they speak). The illustrator is obviously a talented artist as evidenced by the (too few!) illustrations which contain no people or animals.
Mind you, I buy a lot of books solely for the art so show more this unappealing art is major flaw. What could have been a wonderful helping book for all ages is effectively limited to kids and fans of the big-eyed manga cartoon styles. Which leaves out a world of other people who might otherwise benefit from the very excellent message contained therein. Also, I truly disliked the full page DVD ad in the back of the book too. A discreet little note directing one to the website would have sufficed. show less

Tear Soup is a lovely book about death and coping with the loss of a loved one. The main character, Grandy, experiences the death of her husband and makes tear soup as a coping mechanism- such a lovely and original concept. Tear Soup was one of the better books that I read on the topic, as it discusses death, but also how Grandy tries coping with her loss. This book brought me to tears and I would definitely recommend.

This book has come up enough as a recommendation that I wanted it as an option.

I did not really like it. It’s saccharine and touchy feely.

But I can see why some people would like it. There are a lot of great reviews for this book. I’m keeping it because I think a softer kind of person would like it.

A beautifully illustrated picture book. What appears to be a children's story is actually a recipe for dealing with or understanding grief. Tear Soup gives a glimpse into Grandy's life as she blends different ingredients into her grief process. This is a very special book for anyone experiencing grief or their friends and loved ones. (Griefshare)

A magnificent little book that can be a real help in times of grief for a wide variety of people. It points out that people can grieve many different things, that everyone's grief looks different, and that grief takes time. Also shows how friends can help someone grieve. A wonderful book with other fine resources.