Rob Lowe
Author of Stories I Only Tell My Friends: An Autobiography
About the Author
Robert Hepler "Rob" Lowe was born on March 17, 1964 in Charlottesville, Virginia. He attended Santa Monica High School, the same high school as fellow actors Emilio Estevez, Charlie Sheen, Sean Penn, and Chris Penn. One of Lowe's earliest roles came in the 1983 TV movie Thursday's Child, for which show more he received his first Golden Globe nomination for "Best Actor in a TV Movie/Miniseries. His breakthrough came in 1983, when he and Emilio Estevez were cast in Francis Ford Coppola's The Outsiders, which remains one of his most famous roles. Lowe played the role of Sodapop Curtis, the brother of the main character Ponyboy Curtis. Lowe and Estevez reunited in St. Elmo's Fire, making them the two more prominent actors from the group known as the Brat Pack. Lowe is also known for playing Sam Seaborn in the television series The West Wing from 1999 to 2003. His performance in the show garnered Lowe an Emmy and two Golden Globe Award nominations for Best Actor in a Drama Series. In 2005, he starred as Lieutenant Daniel Kaffee in a London West End production of Sorkin's play A Few Good Men, the first time the two had worked together since The West Wing. Despite his two canceled TV series and flops like View From the Top and the made-for-TV movie Perfect Strangers during his post West Wing run, Lowe found success in the TV miniseries genre. In 2004 he marked his return to this genre; he had appeared in 1994's The Stand, based on Stephen King's book of the same name. In 2004, Lowe starred in the TNT remake of the Stephen King miniseries Salem's Lot which was the highest rated cable program of that summer and the highest ratings TNT original programming had at the time. In 2005, Lowe starred in the miniseries Beach Girls on the Lifetime network, based on the Luanne Rice novel of the same name. The series premiere received the highest ratings for a movie premiere in Lifetime history. In that same year, Lowe filmed his critically acclaimed role as super movie agent in the 2006 independent film Thank You for Smoking. In 2006, it was announced that Lowe would join the cast of Brothers & Sisters for a guest run of several episodes. In January 2007, ABC announced that Lowe would be staying on Brothers and Sisters as a "special guest star" for the rest of season 1 after Lowe's initial appearance on the show in November 2006 brought the best ratings and demographic showing for the show since its premiere. Soon after ABC announced an early season 2 renewal for Brother & Sisters in March 2007, Lowe announced he would be returning for the show's second season. He continued to appear in the series until the end of the 2009/2010 season. Rob Lowe authored the book Stories I Only Tell My Best Friends: An Autobiography whcih made the 2011 Publisher's Weekly Best Seller List. He followed that with more stories in his book Love Life in 2014. (Bowker Author Biography) show less
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Works by Rob Lowe
Socs and Greasers: Behind The Scenes of The Outsiders from Rob Lowe's Stories I Only Tell My Friends (2012) 37 copies, 3 reviews
The Specials 1 copy
One Hell of a Guy 1 copy
Associated Works
Double Feature: The Christmas Shoes [and] The Christmas Blessing [DVD] — Actor — 2 copies
2-Movie Collection: Super Troopers — Actor — 2 copies
Too Late to Say Goodbye [2009 TV movie] — Actor — 2 copies
First Degree [1995 movie] — Actor — 2 copies
Breakaway [2011 film] 1 copy
The 80s: The Decade That Made Us [2013 TV mini series] — Narrator — 1 copy
One Hell of a Guy [1998 film] — Actor — 1 copy
You, Me & The Apocalypse: The Complete First Season — Actor — 1 copy
Wild Bill [2019 TV series] — Actor — 1 copy
Against the Odds: Season One — Narrator — 1 copy
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- 1964-03-17
- Gender
- male
- Occupations
- actor
- Relationships
- Lowe, Chad (brother)
- Nationality
- USA
- Birthplace
- Charlottesville, Virginia, USA
- Places of residence
- Oakwood, Ohio, USA
Malibu, California, USA - Associated Place (for map)
- USA
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If someone made up this life as a story, no one would like it -- it would be too contrived. How can so many amazing things happen to a guy so likeable?
Living down the road from the Sheens; meeting Liza Minelli, Frank Sinatra, Cary Grant, Lucille Ball, and others; dating Princess Stephanie of Monacco (and discovering she had a crush on him, too!); witnessing some amazing Hollywood projects; travelling on the 9/11 test flight; working with the Who's Who of Hollywood; loving acting and being show more able to break into the business to full stardom; recovering from alcoholism; and a whole lot more: its unbelievable.
Lowe tells his stories with humility, realism, and wit. He does not hide from his darker events, but he does not sensationalize them, either (in fact, he sometimes assumes you already heard about them and gives very limited information). Woven throughout his stories are some very astute observations about show business and life.
It's an enjoyable read or listen (he does well with many of the voices of his colleagues), and helpful for people who want to be actors.
My favourite jokes: Michael J. Fox's rib about the cop who raved about Back to the Future because "St. Elmo's Fire was probably sold out"
and Robert Wagner's quip made in the company of Cary Grant, Prince Rainer, and others, that Rob had "banged all of their daughters."
You have to read it. show less
Living down the road from the Sheens; meeting Liza Minelli, Frank Sinatra, Cary Grant, Lucille Ball, and others; dating Princess Stephanie of Monacco (and discovering she had a crush on him, too!); witnessing some amazing Hollywood projects; travelling on the 9/11 test flight; working with the Who's Who of Hollywood; loving acting and being show more able to break into the business to full stardom; recovering from alcoholism; and a whole lot more: its unbelievable.
Lowe tells his stories with humility, realism, and wit. He does not hide from his darker events, but he does not sensationalize them, either (in fact, he sometimes assumes you already heard about them and gives very limited information). Woven throughout his stories are some very astute observations about show business and life.
It's an enjoyable read or listen (he does well with many of the voices of his colleagues), and helpful for people who want to be actors.
My favourite jokes: Michael J. Fox's rib about the cop who raved about Back to the Future because "St. Elmo's Fire was probably sold out"
and Robert Wagner's quip made in the company of Cary Grant, Prince Rainer, and others, that Rob had "banged all of their daughters."
You have to read it. show less
An entertaining and thoughtful work about and by Rob who gives a lot of the good, bad, and ugly of his climb through the jungle of the quest to stardom. I never followed his career that closely as it was playing out. I was just aware of him and of course the big sex scandal he was involved in that today would not amount to much.
Rob takes us through his journey that he persisted with until he kind of got what he wanted. Fame of sorts that was fleeting but led him down a number of paths some show more inspiring some pitiful. His breakthrough in a couple of movies and on to his probably crowning achievement "The West Wing."
His wild days partying and womanizing up to the time when seems to have straightened thing out with his marriage to a pretty devoted and woman, very fortunate for him. I came away with a rather good impression of they guy and all he accomplished through some trying times. And this despite not having seen much of his work, and ironically that which left the biggest impression on me were his funny TV commercials that I can't even recall what he was promoting. show less
Rob takes us through his journey that he persisted with until he kind of got what he wanted. Fame of sorts that was fleeting but led him down a number of paths some show more inspiring some pitiful. His breakthrough in a couple of movies and on to his probably crowning achievement "The West Wing."
His wild days partying and womanizing up to the time when seems to have straightened thing out with his marriage to a pretty devoted and woman, very fortunate for him. I came away with a rather good impression of they guy and all he accomplished through some trying times. And this despite not having seen much of his work, and ironically that which left the biggest impression on me were his funny TV commercials that I can't even recall what he was promoting. show less
Rob Lowe is a name familiar to anyone who grew up in the 80s. He became a huge star, was a member of the ‘Brat Pack’ and graced bedroom walls everywhere. In the late 80s and 90s, his career took something of a nosedive, but since his work on The West Wing, there has been something of a resurgence. I remember all the fan-worship of Lowe, and after seeing him speaking at the Hay Festival when this book came out, I looked forward to reading it, and getting his own perspective on his show more career.
It’s an entertaining story, told in an engaging and warm voice. He describes his childhood, with a loving but turbulent homelife, and his early ambition to become an actor. His stories about his early days in the industry were my favourite parts of the book – the account of making The Outsiders, as one of a group of soon-to-be-household-names, including Tom Cruise, Patrick Swayze and Emilio Estevez – was particularly interesting (his descriptions of co-stars Swayze and Cruise were affectionate and very witty).
Lowe does a good job of portraying how a young and naive young man can get caught up in the Hollywood machine and lifestyle, and how inevitably, that lifestyle led to his fall from grace in spectacular fashion in 1988, with the sex-tape scandal. He glosses over the scandal and fallout somewhat, but I can’t really blame him for that – he acknowledges it and moves on.
The book is packed with little anecdotes about some of the famous people he met (Cary Grant, Liza Minnelli amongst others, and these before he even got into acting himself), which are entertaining.
What comes through most is Lowe’s love for his wife and family, and his passion for his work. I accept that there was a fair amount left out of the book; nonetheless, it’s an entertaining and enjoyable memoir, which I liked a lot and would recommend to fans of Lowe, or anyone with an interest in film-making. show less
It’s an entertaining story, told in an engaging and warm voice. He describes his childhood, with a loving but turbulent homelife, and his early ambition to become an actor. His stories about his early days in the industry were my favourite parts of the book – the account of making The Outsiders, as one of a group of soon-to-be-household-names, including Tom Cruise, Patrick Swayze and Emilio Estevez – was particularly interesting (his descriptions of co-stars Swayze and Cruise were affectionate and very witty).
Lowe does a good job of portraying how a young and naive young man can get caught up in the Hollywood machine and lifestyle, and how inevitably, that lifestyle led to his fall from grace in spectacular fashion in 1988, with the sex-tape scandal. He glosses over the scandal and fallout somewhat, but I can’t really blame him for that – he acknowledges it and moves on.
The book is packed with little anecdotes about some of the famous people he met (Cary Grant, Liza Minnelli amongst others, and these before he even got into acting himself), which are entertaining.
What comes through most is Lowe’s love for his wife and family, and his passion for his work. I accept that there was a fair amount left out of the book; nonetheless, it’s an entertaining and enjoyable memoir, which I liked a lot and would recommend to fans of Lowe, or anyone with an interest in film-making. show less
My wife and I started listening to this audiobook a couple months back during a road trip to see our daughter's college graduation. While it was amusing enough to keep us occupied in the car, it was hard to build up much enthusiasm to sit and listen to the end once we got home, but we finally made some time at my urging in order to get this off my currently reading list.
I have mixed feelings about Rob Lowe, because he just oozes handsome jackass in his every move and word -- and this book show more really cements that initial impression. And yet I have seen a hell of a lot of his film and television work, including his current stint on 9-1-1: Lone Star and his hilarious turn as Chris Traeger on Parks and Recreation. (Alas, neither of those shows get much attention here as the anecdotes in this 2011 book wrap up with the end of his tenure on The West Wing.)
My wife is a huge fan of The Outsiders and really appreciated the extensive behind-the-scenes information Lowe shares about making the film. I found them interesting also, along with all the other stories he shares about his career and personal life.
I'll never like Rob Lowe as a person, I suppose, but I do admire his persistence through all the crap life has thrown at him as well as all the crap of his own making. show less
I have mixed feelings about Rob Lowe, because he just oozes handsome jackass in his every move and word -- and this book show more really cements that initial impression. And yet I have seen a hell of a lot of his film and television work, including his current stint on 9-1-1: Lone Star and his hilarious turn as Chris Traeger on Parks and Recreation. (Alas, neither of those shows get much attention here as the anecdotes in this 2011 book wrap up with the end of his tenure on The West Wing.)
My wife is a huge fan of The Outsiders and really appreciated the extensive behind-the-scenes information Lowe shares about making the film. I found them interesting also, along with all the other stories he shares about his career and personal life.
I'll never like Rob Lowe as a person, I suppose, but I do admire his persistence through all the crap life has thrown at him as well as all the crap of his own making. show less
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