Eleanor D. Payson

This was a tough one. It’s dense and there is So Much to process, think of the implications, process again. I put it down and picked it up several times over 8 months. Ultimately I find it extremely helpful and would recommend to those interacting with a narcissist, be it in a family, romantic, work, or general setting.

This is the story of my life told through the lens of people who do not see anyone but themselves in the world. The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists gave me so much insight into my entire life; parents, friendships, romantic relationships, co-workers, and that nasty place at which I used to work.

Easy to read and understand, Eleanor Payson writes of the many ways NPD harms us and offers help to minimize the harmful swipes at our self-esteem and confidence. As I read, I began to understand show more why I had felt so confused and adrift my entire life. show less