HelenNZ Back for 2025

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HelenNZ Back for 2025

1HelenBaker
Jan 27, 2025, 4:04 pm

Apologies for my late appearance. Our year got off to a bad start with my husband having a heart attack on New Year's Eve. 15 days later he made it home from hospital with new plumbing i.e. two stents in his heart. It took quite a toll on us both energy wise, but hopefully back to a new normal now.
I have kept my goal the same i.e 48. I have 370 books unread on my shelves so plenty to choose from. I have set no other challenges so far this year.

Here is my ticker:

3ritacate
Jan 27, 2025, 9:08 pm

>2 HelenBaker: I remember enjoying One Hundred Years of Solitude about 35 years ago. I think that's long enough to count as a ROOT again.

4connie53
Jan 28, 2025, 2:12 am

Hi Helen. What a awful start you and your family had. Glad to hear your husband is home again and doing well. Welcome back to the ROOTers.

5MissWatson
Jan 28, 2025, 3:28 am

Welcome back, Helen, and I hope things are going uphill for you, after such an awful start to the year.

6rabbitprincess
Jan 28, 2025, 7:22 pm

Yikes! What a scary way to start the new year. Hope 2025 improves for you both.

9connie53
Mar 11, 2025, 6:36 am

Doing great, Helen. I hope the energy is returning and your husband is doing well.

14connie53
Jul 13, 2025, 3:13 am

Hi Helen, everything all right with you and yours? I hope so. You are doing great with your reading so far.

15HelenBaker
Jul 13, 2025, 3:53 am

>14 connie53: Sadly the family health worries have continued through the year.
In March, my daughter Carolyn's husband suffered a ruptured appendix and was in hospital for a week. We just got him home and my husband Don went in to have his ulcerated little toe amputated. He is still having to have his wound dressed every couple of days by District Nurses. It has been very painful and slow healing as he is diabetic.
In May, our eldest daughter had surgery and collapsed the next day as she was bleeding internally and had to be rushed back in to surgery. They are now thinking she may have had a mini stroke from a small blood clot as a result of the bleeding as she is having cognitive problems and not able to return to work yet.
In June, Carolyn, also suffered a ruptured appendix and had emergency surgery. A very tired surgeon failed to suture one of her incisions and she too, had to go back in to surgery. A week later, still in hospital they operated again as they felt the infection wasn't contained. She is now home slowly recovering.
So a very worrying few months for the whole family. Although, I think my wakeful nights, mean I have read more books this year. It provides a distraction from reality when I am having trouble sleeping. It also may explain my absence from chat groups.
I hope you and Peet are keeping well.

16connie53
Jul 13, 2025, 5:02 am

Ohh, that really is a LOT of health stuff. And far to many appendixes rupturing. It seems like a familial epidemic.
And the toe thing sounds awful. I hope he will we get better soon despite the diabetic thing. My dad was a diabetic too and I know the complications there can occur. Give my best wishes to him and your daughters.

I'm glad books are a distraction in sleepless nights, but I hope you will have good nights to come.

Peet is doing good. His medication has been adjusted and now he is much better mentally. The physical things stays the same and there is no hope of that getting better. But he has accepted the fact that he had to live in the care centre for the remaining time. He is not rebellious about that any more which gives me less tension when visiting him.

Thanks for asking.

17EGBERTINA
Jul 13, 2025, 7:34 am

>15 HelenBaker: wishing you strength and healing going forward

18MissWatson
Jul 14, 2025, 3:58 am

>15 HelenBaker: That is so much do deal with. I hope things will improve soon. Take care of yourself.

20ritacate
Aug 29, 2025, 1:57 pm

>15 HelenBaker: so sorry to hear all your family has been going through. Prayers for healing and peace.

24HelenBaker
Edited: Nov 13, 2025, 12:56 am

Finally, finally updating my reading log.
The year continues in the same vein sadly, for my husband. In early September he became very short of breath and developed angina, so it was back to hospital for him. It turned out he was severely anaemic. He was given 4 blood transfusions to elevate his haemoglobin to a safe level. 16 days later it occurred again so I called an ambulance and it was the same scenario with 4 more transfusions. After many tests it was decided he was having a reaction to one of his medications. His auto-immune system didn't like it and was attacking the medication designed to improve the production of red blood cells and then it had begun attacking all his red blood cells. So to date, he is currently have 2 more transfusions as I write, making it 19 units of blood over 10 weeks!
He started a new replacement drug not normally funded about 10 days ago, but last weekend he developed an infection and some of his joints have become inflammed, so he has been started on antibiotics and prednisone. They are hoping a course of prednisone will restart the production of red blood cells because this cannot continue.
So I have been struggling to find computer time with all my husband's appointments. However on the bright side, I have reached and surpassed my goal of 48 of my own books. Now I am at 51, so I am happy with that as I have also made a concerted effort to not go to bookfairs and add to my library. I will now try and remove these off my 'to read' list and hopefully get back with my adjusted number.

25HelenBaker
Edited: Nov 13, 2025, 12:56 am

So my to read list is now at 337. I hope to continue to reduce this by years end. In recent years I have started the year with about 380 books on my shelves, so this is a satisfying reduction in number, largely due to my lack of acquisitions. I hope this will motivate me to continue this downward trend.

26MissWatson
Nov 13, 2025, 5:14 am

Congratulations on reaching your goal. I am also sorry to hear that real life has been very hard for you.

27Cecilturtle
Nov 13, 2025, 8:56 am

I'm sorry to hear about your husband, Helen. I hope you get some solace from all your great reading.

28KWharton
Nov 19, 2025, 1:45 am

That's a very difficult year for you, Helen! I'm glad you have been able to achieve your reading goal. You have some great books on there.

I hope 2026 is a calmer year for you on the health front.

29connie53
Dec 3, 2025, 10:48 am

Oh Helen. What a lot of things have been happening for you and your family.
I really hope the health of your husband will get better and the prednison does it's work. My heart and thoughts are with you.

30clue
Dec 3, 2025, 11:10 am

You've had plenty to contend with, that's for sure. Best wishes for an easier year for both of you coming up!

32HelenBaker
Edited: Dec 30, 2025, 9:19 pm

Well I am delighted with my numbers this year, despite it being a very tough year healthwise for my family, I have read 100 books and with stricter monitoring of acquisitions I have read 61 of my own books and finally reduced my TBR. For the past few years I have started with around 380 books on my TBR and I am delighted that I finish the year with 332. Hopefully I will continue in this vein in 2026 and steadily bring it down.
I have, however, chosen reading over computer time, so my communication has been poor. I guess reading is an escape.

Wishing you all health and happiness and some great reading experiences in 2026.