The World's Largest Man: A Memoir

by Harrison Scott Key

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Harrison Scott Key was born in Memphis, but he grew up in Mississippi, among pious, Bible-reading women and men who either shot things or got women pregnant. At the center of his world was his larger-than-life father-a hunter, a fighter, a football coach, "a man better suited to living in a remote frontier wilderness of the nineteenth century than contemporary America, with all its progressive ideas, and paved roads, and lack of armed duels. He was a great man, and he taught me many things: show more how to fight, how to work, how to cheat, how to pray to Jesus about it, how to kill things with guns and knives and, if necessary, with hammers." Harrison, with his love of books and excessive interest in hugging, couldn't have been less like Pop, and when it became clear that he was not able to kill anything very well or otherwise make his father happy, he resolved to become everything his father was not: an actor, a Presbyterian, and a doctor of philosophy. But when it was time to settle down and start a family of his own, Harrison started to view his father in a new light, and realized-for better and for worse-how much of his old man he'd absorbed. Sly, heartfelt, and tirelessly hilarious, The World's Largest Man is an unforgettable memoir. show less

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Aula Similar style of humor; also deals with family relationships in the American South
RidgewayGirl The fathers in these two books are very similar, although Lockwood tempers her humor with a lot of honesty and introspection, while Key keeps things humorous (and more shallow).

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Key is a very funny guy. But in this memoir about his growing up in Mississippi and tales of an often strained and awkward relationship with his father, he can also move you to tears. I wanted to read this book after reading his second book (due out in November 2018) - CONGRATULATIONS, WHO ARE YOU AGAIN? - which was largely about the writing and publishing of THIS book, and his adventures in academia, higher education, and crippling student loan debts. I thoroughly enjoyed THE WORLD'S LARGEST MAN, but I may have liked the newer book even more. It took Harrison Scott Key years to find his "voice," but now that he has, he's rockin' it. One of the best - and funniest - books about fathers and sons that I've read in recent years. Very show more highly recommended.

- Tim Bazzett, author of the memoir, BOOKLOVER
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"You ever speak to old Lamar Bibbs?" Pop would say.

"Not since him and Gola Mae went down yonder after the thing up at the place," Monk would say.

The younger me would perk up, eager to hear some gothic fable drawn from the mists of Mississippi Hill Country lore. Perhaps a story about a mule trampling a baby, or the time when everyone got the yellow fever and died.

But all was quiet. Monk would be leaning over and staring at his folded hands, as though he had be bludgeoned with a skillet, while Pop would be studying his dentures, which he held in his palm like a small, wounded vole. Then he would put them back into his mouth, having divested them of any lingering corn.


Harrison Scott Key tells the story of his own boyhood, where he lived show more with his family in rural Mississippi. His father was a force of nature, a man who was going to mold his son into his own image; a sports-playing, animal-hunting man's man. This worked well enough with his older brother, but Harrison mainly wanted to read books and go grocery shopping with his mother. Even as he did his best to thwart his father's ambitions, he still lived under the shadow of his father.

I was always coy about my books, afraid Pop would find them effeminate. In our family, the only books men read were in the Bible and you weren't supposed to do it for fun. You did it because Jesus would hurt you if you didn't.

This is a very funny book. It's fatal flaw is that it often reaches for humor when it should reach for something more honest and heart-felt. Key occasionally moves in that direction; a later chapter about his marriage approaches real depth, but for the most part, this remains just a funny book about being bad at hunting and about a boy trying to become a man, when the example of manhood in front of him is far from who he wants to be.

Pop didn't have friends, which he believed were things meant for women and children, as were holidays and happiness. A real man didn't need all that. All a man needed was a gun and a wood stove and maybe, if things got bad, a towel for the blood.
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I loved the first 13 chapters! They were laugh out loud funny, with just the right amount of cynicism and sentimentality. Mississippi is truly another country, maybe even another planet(my mother was born and raised there but she always told people she was from Memphis, that says a lot).

What happened after Chapter 13? He got married, his wife finally got pregnant, they moved to Savannah, they had kids, they had marriage problems, blah blah blah. Yep, with the exception of chapter 18, chapters 14 through the end of the book could have been anybody's life, living in any state in America. And I really did not need to have an entire chapter about potty training his daughter, yeah everyone who has kids has to go through this and no it is show more not fun (altho I think most of us get our kids fully trained before they are 5, unlike the author and his wife)-Really 5?! Nor did I need an entire chapter of his wife's pregnancy and 32 hours of labor with no drugs.

And of course the last chapter is devoted to rhapsodizing about what a great, wonderful dad he had. That's nice, but a little sentimental goo goes a long way.

So here's my recommendation. Read the first 13 chapters + chapter 18, then stop and you will think the book deserves 5 stars. I wish had.
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Hilarious, tender, rough memoir of growing up and a father who was so very big, and strong, and 'manly,' and so very different than he...
Delightful & meaningful book about author's larger than life father - very Mississippi.
This book by Key is well worth reading. It tells the, often humorous, story of his relationship with this father. There are many trials and tribulations and misunderstandings, even yes, some hatred. BUT, there is also at the end a more complete understanding of the love that has bound them together over all the years. His family was raised quite differently from many and he had his struggles to grow beyond his upbringing, and this story is well worth the read. I enjoyed it.

J. Robert Ewbank author "John Wesley, Natural Man, and the Isms" "Wesley's Wars" and "To Whom It May Concern"
quit on page 107. wasn't bad, just didn't hold my interest.

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Canonical title
The World's Largest Man: A Memoir
Original title
The World's Largest Man: A Memoir
Original publication date
2015-05-12
Important places
rural Mississippi; Savannah, Georgia, USA
Dedication
For my wife and also my lover, who have the pleasure of being the exact same person, and who hates it when I call her "my lover," so I do it a lot, because I have a disease that makes me say it.
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When I left Mississippi many years ago, I would sometimes come back to visit my parents, and at some point, my mother and I would end up in the kitchen, while my father sat in the living room watching America's Most Wanted... (show all) and trying to decide which of his neighbors were lying about their identities.
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I was always coy about my books, afraid Pop would find them effeminate. In our family, the only books men read were in the Bible and you weren't supposed to do it for fun. You did it because Jesus would hurt you if you didn't... (show all).
Pop didn't have friends, which he believed were things meant for women and children, as were holidays and happiness. A real man didn't need all that. All a man needed was a gun and a wood stove and maybe, if things got bad, a... (show all) towel for the blood.
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Biography & Memoir, Nonfiction
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306.8742Social sciencesSocial sciences, sociology & anthropologyCulture and institutionsMarriage, partnerships, unions; familyIntrafamily relationshipsParent-child relationshipFather-child relationship
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HQ755.85 .K493Social sciencesThe family. Marriage, Women and SexualityThe Family. Marriage. WomenThe family. Marriage. HomeParents. Parenthood
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