A Quick & Easy Guide to Asexuality

by Molly Muldoon, Will Hernandez (Author)

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Asexuality is often called The Invisible Orientation. You don?t learn about it in school, you don?t hear ace on television. So, it?s kinda hard to be ace in a society so steeped in sex that no one knows you exist. Too many young people grow up believing that their lack of sexual desire means they are broken ? so writer Molly Muldoon and cartoonist Will Hernandez, both in the ace community, are here to shed light on society?s misconceptions of asexuality and what being ace is really like. show more This book is for anyone who wants to learn about asexuality, and for Ace people themselves, to validate their experiences. Asexuality is a real identity and it?s time the world recognizes it. Here?s to being invisible no more! show less

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This is a great book for ace folks. When it covered people acting like you are broken and just need a good lay, I wished I had this in high school. I also liked that it touched on ace folks not being or feel like they are being included in queer communities. This is definitely true, IME.

My only quibble is that the two page spread is difficult to read on phones without constantly enlarging. If it were a one page spread, I don't think there would be as much of an issue with reading ease.
A solid introduction to the topic, I think. At least, I've seen all of this information represented on the queer- and asexual-run websites on asexuality, so this book seems to do a good job of summing all of that up in a clear and concise way.

I do wish, as I have with all of those websites, that there was an effort to define "sexual attraction" instead of just assuming all readers will know exactly what that is and how that feels. Unlikely, considering at least some of the readers will be questioning their own asexuality. So what is sexual attraction compared to, say, aesthetic appreciation or libido? How does it exist in the absence or presence of those things?

There are moments in this book that hint at those questions (and answers?), show more but nothing concrete and nothing intended to elaborate on how those concepts fit into the asexual spectrum or the split attraction model. I'm sure some asexual people know exactly where they fall, but for those in that grey area the authors mention, I would imagine more information would be helpful. show less
Like all the Quick & Easy Guides To, I love this book. I wish I could afford to buy extra copies and hand it out to people. At the least I'll be buying a copy for my daughter so she can have the complete library as reference material as she grows up.

This book goes through asexuality, aromanticism, the difference between identity and actions (so important!), and how these all live on a spectrum instead of a black and white duality. It also reviews how they interact with other identities such as gender identity and sexual orientation. It also covers the need for more education and representation of asexuality in general, since we do not acknowledge it much in our society.

This is a valuable addition to anyone's library. I'd especially show more recommend it to anyone with children, anyone working in education or with the public, and especially anyone in healthcare.

I received a free electronic ARC from the publisher via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
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This book did a great job of trying to explain the complex spectrum of asexuality in the simplest way possible. This book would be great for anyone who thinks they might be asexual, anyone that wants to be an ally, or anyone that just wants to have a better understanding of their fellow humans.

I loved that the book was broken down into separate chapters and the easy to understand illustrations that reinforced the text.
Just as it says, a very quick basic guide. I found that it did a good job of introducing the basics of the ace/aro spectrum and the differences between attraction and behaviour without getting confusing or sounding wishy-washy. Gives a good jumping off point and vocabulary for people who want to learn more about the topic. 
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I was provided an advance copy by NetGalley in exchange of an honest review.

I am gray-ace, and feel comfortable calling myself part of the queer community, so I was pretty excited to this one since I love to see my flag being represented.
The art it's not really my style and has a lot of inconsistency, but I let this slide since it should be some of an educational comic.
I liked most of the things but disagree with the way the authors insisted in saying that assexuality is the LACK of sexual attraction. Since most of the community are actually on the gray espectrum and are not sex-repulsed this was the thing that made me and many other question themselves.
Assexual people CAN experience sexual attraction, but they NEED to be under show more especific conditions or not at all.
A lot of people see themselves as demisexual, I myself though I was too for kind some time. Demisexuality is when you feel sexual attraction but ONLY if you already has an emotional bond with the person, therefore you don't get the hots for some cute singer like your friends, for example.
I think the book was ok, but not the best assexual representation that I read. I myself don't think at my teens I would be comfortable with this lable only reading this comic, so for me this is a medium example of representatives.
On fiction you can find a lot of my accurate books, and it's really easier to indentify the signals by examples than for a educational book like this one.
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The authors host a tidy little introduction to asexuality filled with facts and their own experiences. Good info presented well.

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Canonical title
A Quick & Easy Guide to Asexuality
Original publication date
2022-03
People/Characters
Molly Muldoon; Will Hernandez; Jane Bennet; Sherlock Holmes; Nikola Tesla; Spock
First words
Oh, hey! Didn't see you there!

   We were just talking about asexuality.
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(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)Hopefully you're feeling a little more educated, and if you want to read up on more of this, there are resources in the back.

   And now we're off --

-- to get some cake!
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Thor, Rosiee
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English

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LGBTQ+, Nonfiction, Graphic Novels & Comics, General Nonfiction, Teen
DDC/MDS
306.762Society, Government, and CultureSocial sciences, sociology & anthropologySocial Behavior - Dating, Marriage, DivorceSexual relationsSexual orientation, transgender identity, intersexualityAsexuality [previously included eunuchs and castrati]
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HQ73 .M85Social sciencesThe family. Marriage, Women and SexualityThe Family. Marriage. WomenSexual life
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