What Do You Do, Dear?

by Sesyle Joslin

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More advice on proper behavior in a variety of social situations.

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What do you do if you're a fearsome pirate making your fine lady captive walk the plank, and she drops her handkerchief? Why pick it up for her, of course! What about if you're being kidnapped from the library by a villain named Bad-Nose Bill? Walk quietly out of the building - obviously! These and other pieces of helpful advise about the proper etiquette are offered here, in this charming, tongue-in-cheek guide to good manners.

Originally published in 1961, What Do You Do, Dear? is the second manners guide created by author Sesyle Joslin and illustrator Maurice Sendak, following upon their earlier What Do You Say, Dear? (1958), which was chosen as a Caldecott Honor Book in 1959. It is a droll exploration of good manners, emphasizing show more through extraordinary and unusual story-lines, the proper course of conduct, in more mundane times. One presumes, after all, that it isn't bad manners to object, when being kidnapped! Otherwise, of course, quiet in the library is advisable. Recommended to Sendak fans, people who enjoy vintage picture-books (there is some socially outdated material here), or anyone looking for entertaining examinations of etiquette for young children. show less
An old favorite, with wonderful Maurice Sendak illustrations. Love the use of ridiculous scenarios to illustrate common courtesy and good manners. (Just after taking a big mouthful of pudding, a handsome prince rides up and asks you to be his princess. What do you do, dear? You swallow your pudding before you speak.)
One day I at a bookstore I happened upon this book, and it's partner, and I was instantly brought back to my childhood. I had completely forgotten about them, but when I took them up and turned the pages, every picture jumped up as an old friend. I loved Sendak's wonderful illustrations as a kid, and they trigged a lot of thoughts. Needless to say, I bought them both at once. My son has loved them as well.
What Do You Do Dear? Proper Conduct For All Occasions. A Second Handbook of Etiquette For Young Ladies and Gentlemen to Be Used as a Guide For Everyday Social Behavior

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Sendak, Maurice (Illustrator)

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Persson, Boris (Translator)

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Original publication date
1961
Dedication
This was for Victoria, Alexandra, Julia, and Awich Hine Buff
First words
You are in the library reading a book when suddenly you are lassoed by Bad-Nose Bill.
Last words
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)Remember to thank your hostess for a lovely time.

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Genres
Children's Books, Picture Books
DDC/MDS
395.122Social sciencesCustoms, etiquette & folkloreEtiquette (Manners)Etiquette for Children and Young People
LCC
BJ1857 .C5 .J598Philosophy, Psychology and ReligionEthicsSocial usages. Etiquette
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5 — Dutch, English, French, Korean, Swedish
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Paper
ISBNs
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