Pang-Mei Natasha Chang

A gorgeous and compelling memoir. Pang-Mei Natasha Chang tells the story of her great aunt, Chang Yu-i, and the story of early twentieth century China, including interesting information related to the customs, traditions and mores of the old Chinese culture. Yu-i was one of the first Chinese woman to go through a modern divorce. She was young, poorly educated, with two children, one of whom tragically died shortly after her divorce. Yu-i transforms from a poorly educated, highly dependent show more woman into a self-reliant, educated, and successful woman who eventually becomes the vice-president of the Shanghai Woman's Savings Bank and helps ensure its survival, when Japan invaded Shanghai. When her great niece finds her name in books while studying Far East Culture at Harvard University, she is intrigued by her family history and decides to interview her. This book is the product of those interviews, a poignant and bitter story and a fascinating family history. show less

Written by her great-niece, this is the story of Yu-i, a woman caught between East and West, between being a traditional Chinese wife and an educated Western woman.

Pang-Mei Natasha Chang, the author, discovers that her great-aunt was a famous woman in China whilst she is studying. She spends time with her aunt to find out her story, from her birth into a respected Chinese family, through her marriage to and divorce from a celebrated poet, to her move to the US in the '70s.
What makes this so show more readable is the sympathetic writing style, and conflicting and sometimes contradictory memories of her great-aunt, making this more human and less of a history lesson. The contradictions arise from Yu-i trying to walk the line between East and West. The first girl in her family not to have bound feet, after protests by her brother, she wanted to be educated, but her duty to her parents, and then her in-laws, prevents her continuing.
A second thread in the book is Chang's own dilemma, a first-generation Chinese-America. She also feels like she is lost inbetween the two cultures, and as her great-aunt's story unfolds, she looks hard at her own life.

There are many biographies and memoirs of Chinese women on the market, but what makes this different is it's often contradictory nature and the comparisons drawn with the present. show less

This memoir deals with the life of a prominent Chinese woman who emigrated to the United States in the early 20th Century after having been the first woman to be subject to a "modern divorce." As told by her great niece, the story is that of an admirable individual, striving to bridge the immense changes taking place in her society and adapt herself in turbulent times. The author provides an interesting commentary that contrasts her own, still unsettling, experience as an American of Chinese show more descent. show less

rabck from the convention; While the author, a Chinese-American, was studying Chinese history in college she noticed her family name & her great-aunt's name in some of the texts. When she interviewed her aunt, she found that she really was famous. The books spans Yu-i's life from birth in 1900 through 1931, during which quite a change occurred in China, embracing western ways while still continuing in some of the old ones too. She was the first modern divorcee in China, which was quite a show more scandal at the time. The book includes photos of the Chang family that the author obtained from Yu-i's family, as well as translations of her first husband's poems, which he was famous for. show less