Whisper1(Linda) Thread #1

Happy New Year! What a joy to start a thread and belong to a group that has been together since 2008!

Hi Linda! Starred you.

Happy New Year, Linda.

Hi Linda, hope things are well at your end, looking forward to this next year with you.

Best wishes for the coming year, Linda. It's nice to be visiting again!

HAPPY NEW YEAR, dear Linda!
I"m bringing a star and a hope that 2012 bests 2011 in wonderful books and conversation!

Hi Linda, welcome to the 2012 group! :-)

Happy New Year, lovey!

Happy New Year! I'll join this group as soon as I figure out How!

Hey, Linda and a Happy New Year to you and yours.

Happy New year Linda, I hope the new year brings good health and good reading.

Linda, looking forward to keeping up again in 2012. Happy new year!

Hi there Linda and Happy New Year.

Happy New Year Linda!! I will try to keep up this year...

Hoping you have a great New Year!!

Welcome back!

hi Linda!
Wishing you a happy and healthy 2012!!!

Happy New Year, Linda! Cheers, to your best year ever!

Happy New Year Linda!

Happy New Year, LInda! I hope it is pain-free. I still remember you in my prayers.

Alan

May 2012 bring health.

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year, Linda! I hope that your health improves in 2012, and that we can meet up in Philadelphia some time this spring.

Happy New Year, Linda! Hope 2012 brings you exactly the kind of blessings you need. Good health, for starters! I will never keep up with things (me old eyes, you know) but wanted to get in at the start with a hug and a hello.

Big hug, Linda ... I hope you have a wonderful year ahead, and a painfree one too.

Happy New Years!

Happy and Healthy New Year, Linda!

Good morning, Linda, and Happy New Year!

Happy New Year Linda. Hope 2012 is a good one for you.

Happy new year!

Happy New Year, Linda! Hugs and good wishes for a Very Good Year!

Happy New Year to you, my friend!

Hi Linda! Here's to a great 2012!

Starring your thread! I hope you are having a Happy New Year!

Happy New Year, Linda. I am looking forward to all the great recommendations I always get at your thread. My New Years wish is for health and happiness to all!

Happy New Year! Here's to a happy, HEALTHY one for us both!! : )

Happy New Year!

Happy New Year, Linda!

Hello there, Linda! Dropping off my star...hope you had a lovely New Year's Day!

Sandy K

Finally managed to get here. Happy New Year!

Hi Linda, just found your thread so have you starred now and am looking forward to more great reviews from you. Hope you had a great christmas and a happy new year.

There you are!!

I hope you have a year of less pain and more great books, Linda. :)

Thanks to all for stopping by!

I spent the last few days resting in between taking the ornaments off the tree.

First up:

BOOK #1


Behind You by Jacqueline Woodson

Any words to describe this amazing author would be trite and corny. Suffice it to say, she is one worth reading. Few can deal with intense subjects and yet not succumb to over drama and embellishment.

While this is a companion to If You Come Softly, a book I haven't read, there was no difficulty following the story.

Well deserving of the Coretta Scott King award, in this small, but powerful book, Woodson tackles the topics of interracial relationships, grief, sorrow and a young black man killed in a case of mistaken identity by NYC police. Woodson's writing is stunningly beautiful and gripping while packing a soft punch that leaves the reader softly sighing..."Oh!"

As Miah passes on, he is challenged to watch those who loved him as they grieve. Told from various perspectives of Miah's mother, his father, his girlfriend and best friend, all of whom are experiencing intense sorrow, Woodson has the ability to switch characters and feelings very smoothly. Many other authors cannot do this as well as she can.

Highly recommended!

BOOK #2


The End of The Alphabet by C.S. Richardson

Thanks to Stasia for recommending this and loaning it to me.

The author is a designer by trade and the beauty of the book for me was the cover and design throughout the story.

When Ambrose Zephr is given the news he has approximately one month to live, he and his wife embark on a whirlwind journey to complete his list of places he wants to visit. An alphabet lover since childhood, Ambrose begins A and tries to work toward Z while the sands of the hourglass slip through the glass.

I'm not exactly sure why the book or story didn't pull me in. The think the writing felt a tad choppy and somehow lacked depth.

I really need to get to some of Woodson's books this year!

I think I liked The End of the Alphabet marginally better than you, but not by much. I would have liked more depth too.

Really liked and thumbed your review of Behind You, Linda.

I'm sorry you didn't like The End of the Alphabet. I read it about 2 years ago and found it rather poignant because it felt like I was reading through a person's rather tattered memories. I guess I found his stories poignant because he and we knew his time was finite and that there was a more pressing reason behind the trips.

Happy New Year Linda. Also adding my wishes that 2012 is a better year for you health-wise.

BOOK #3

Confessions of a Common Reader by Anne Fadiman

What a delightful way to spend a cold NE Pennsylvania day! Simon the Sheltie was sleeping on the floor, nestled in his holiday present of a large soft pillow, while I decided to stay in my new, warm pjs when reading this fun book. A few ornaments were removed from the tree, but that task can wait for another day.

Anyone who is as obsessed with books, as so many of us are, will delight in this lovely compilation of stories about books, their personal meaning, how we collect them, why we collect them, how we do or don't share them and how we may have gained a love of reading.

Some of my favorite essays include the author's comments regarding how, after joining her partner in marriage years later it was decided to meld their books. Realizing that commitments can begin and then end, both book lovers did not want to give up their personal cache. What fun to read laugh out loud situations about who gets to give away their copy of a multiple edition and who decides how to categorize and shelf which are most important.

Another essay, of which I can totally relate, discusses the fact that those who consume books like lovely pieces of chocolate, cannot help but become obsessive proofreaders, noting the smallest errors. We read menus and find typos. And, how very frustrating it is to read a lovely sentence and then discover the utter shock of a glaring spelling error.

I laughed at this tale because a few days ago while at physical therapy I noticed many materials on the counter. Wham! I saw the proud statement that this practice is excellent in managing "pan!"

Remembering that as an infant my granddaughter chewed the corners of all cards sent to her, I smiled when I learned that one of the reasons first editions of Alice in Wonderland are so difficult to find is because children seemed to like to eat the pages.

Thanks ever so much to Pat (Phebj) for sending this special gift my way!

Recommended.

Confessions of a Common Reader was one of my favorites for 2011. I felt like I'd found a kindred soul in Anne Fadiman. Glad you enjoyed it too, Linda!

Amy, I think you were the one who recommend this book and that's why it went on the wishlist. By the way, I love your review of it!

I read 160 books in 2011, of which many were excellent. I have to say that Christopher Paul Curtis is well deserving of the top spot (s) again. He is an incredible writer!

Number One Book
Bud, Not Buddy by Christopher Paul Curtis
#2 Elijah of Buxton by Christopher Paul Curtis
#3 Okay for Now by Gary Schmidt
#4 The Prince of Frogtown by Rick Bragg
#5 Rules by Cynthia Lord
#6 No and Me by Delphine de Vigan
#7 The Chronicles of Harris Burdick by Chris Van Allsburg
#8 Marcelo in the Real World by Francisco X. Stork
#9 A Good Hard Look by Ann Napolitano
#10 The Hundred Penny Box by Sharon Bell Mathis
#11 Museum of the Missing: A History of Art Theft by Simon Houpt

And, everything I've read in 2011 by Jacqueline Woodson

Linda, that collection of book essays by Anne Fadiman is on my all-time favorites list. What a great way to start the year! :)

Happy New Year, Linda! I hope to see you in a couple of weeks!

Hi Linda, I also wished for a wee bit more out of The End of the Alphabet but thoroughly enjoyed Ex Libris: Confessions of a Reader when I read it last year. A good start to the year.

I love Ex Libris - it is one of my all-time favorites. I am glad to see you enjoyed it!

Hi Linda, I can't believe you already have 3 books down for the year! Thx for the list of best of for 2011, so helpful.

Hi Linda, you reminded me I got Ex Libris: Confessions of a Common Reader on my shelf - unread! I put it in my 'books about books' section, and too often I just check the fiction shelf when deciding what to read next. I need to get to it very soon!

Happy New Year, Linda! It looks like you're off to a great start.

Happy New Year Linda!

I have you starred and I'm looking forward to seeing what you read this year.

Happy New Year, Linda! I hope 2012 is better for both of us health-wise. Thinking of you and starring your thread! I can't wait to see what you read this year. I haven't read anything by Jacqueline Woodson in years and years. Based on your review I should definitely pick her up again!

Found your thread! Ex Libris looks intriguing -- I'll have to check it out some day.

Some great books and great reviews to kick off the New Year, Linda! :)

I found your thread and it is starred. Added Confessions of a Commen Reader to my ever increasing Linda recommened TBR pile.

#50 I have read 5 of your top 11 reads for 2011 and agree with them all. Most of the others I hope to get to soon.

Hoping you have less pain in 2012 and that we can meetup sometime in PA.

I've added Confessions of a Common Reader to the wishlist. It sounds quite lovely. Unfortunately they don't have it at the library, so I'll just have to ask for it at our next Christmas swap. :-)

Happy New Year!

Hi, Linda! Love the story of the typo in the sign. I hope their pain management is better than their sign-making!

Adding Ex Libris: Confessions of a Common Reader to my list if it's not there already.

ETA to add And we have it at the library!

Hi there. Just waving!!

>50 Whisper1: ive had Marcelo in the Real World on my list for ages...its the only one on your list Ive even heard of! Its a reminder to get it from the library asap.

PS I enjoyed Ex Libris too...

#67 - Marcelo in the Real World is excellent! I don't think I would have picked it up if I hadn't heard about it here.

Hi Linda, we lost track of each other in 2011, but I intend to follow your thread(s) in 2012, despite the fact that your book-choice is a Major Threat to my exploding wish-list. Happy belated new year!

Hi Linda. Happy New Year! I haven't posted on LT in awhile, but I want to keep up with your thread. I read a lot of Jacqueline Woodson when I took a YA Lit course. I enjoyed most of her books. I hope to be popping in again soon :)

Found you at last, dear friend. Whew!

Off to good reading already, I see. The Fadiman book is on my favorites list.

Glad to see you.

Hi Linda, happy new year to you! I really need to get a copy of Ex Libris -- I have heard so many wonderful things about it!

Hi Linda, just waving Hello as I pass through.

Hi Linda, I've had Ex Libris: Confessions of a Common Reader on my WL forever. Thanks for the reminder. I think I'll check my library for it.

♥

Found you and starred you! Happy (belated) New Year!! #hugs

Linda, it's been awhile since you posted here, so I have my fingers crossed that you are just very busy in the New Year. Hope all is well.

>77 DeltaQueen50: youre right! Where's Linda?

Linda to echo Judy and Megan - hope everything is Ok and look forward to your posts again soon.

Hello to all my dear friends.

I've been a tad depressed lately. This is not an emotion that I frequent often, but I think that the pain level, all the various opinions of the professionals who are trying to help and the fact that my muscles are now very weak and I'm falling and have difficulty in getting up, have me in a state of tears.

I'm going to get yet one more opinion (the fourth) and then, most likely will move ahead with surgery. I will see the head of neurosurgery at a local, very reputable hospital. I may have to wait a few weeks to get in to see him, but I'm told it will be worth the wait.

I've tried accupressure, traction (both of which help temporarily), rigorous physical therapy sessions, four facet blocks in my neck, a cortesone injection in my neck, three series of injections in my lower back, neck fusion surgery and I'm still at level 8-9 on a near constant pain basis. I sleep at night because I take 600 mg of neurotin which knocks me out.

I hate talking about it because I fell so damn self absorbed. I think the pain meds are making me weepy as well. Here is the good news:

Everyone is trying to help. Every doctor I see is wonderful, kind, attentive, sensitive and caring.
I'm still able to function on my job.
Each doctor listens and works with me. All affirm that I am strong and dealing with this very well. I guess the child in me needs to hear that I'm a brave little girl who is not over reacting.
And, I have loving caring friends here on LT, at work and in my personal life. Will, my partner is very helpful, but alas even he is getting weary of it all.

Ah, the sun will come out tomorrow...or soon eh?

Thanks to all for listening.

Sorry to see that the new year has brought its share of woes Linda. Keep your chin up and if you're a bit down you have plenty of friends here who care about you and are more than willing to share/ease your burdens.

Sorry to see you are struggling! Hope your surgery fixes the issues and allows you to live pain free.
Hopefully you can get a little cheered up by your family, friends, partner and your friends here on LT!

Sending you some healthy & happy thoughts!

{{{Linda}}}

Love and prayers heading your way, Dear One.

Oh, Linda. You're always so strong; it's okay to admit that you're hurting. I think we'd all rather hear from you than not.

I hope if you do get the surgery that it will resolve this once and for all.

Well, I think you are a very brave little girl! Please don't ever hesitate to unload here, we are here for you and to listen. I truly hope the medicos can help you find some comfort and peace, Linda.

You are absolutely a brave little girl, Linda! I'm sending you many many hugs and holding you in the Light. I hope that way opens and you are able to see the neurosurgeon earlier than hoped for. And everyone is right - you can totally unload here!

Ahh, dearest Linda, I'm so sorry for you continuing pain. Many hugs and best wishes and prayers that you will find a solution to your pain. I pray that the neurosurgeon will be available soon for you too see. I think that you are very brave and a very strong person. Take care.

Found and duly starred.

So sorry you are in so much pain. Hopefully the doctors will find the right solution soon.

Take care of yourself.

Here's hoping and praying that pain relief will finally come -- if it takes surgery, then that it will be successful! You are certainly quite strong to continue working through all the pain.

My sincerest wishes for your recovery, hopefully you won't have to undergo surgery, but even if it comes to that, as everyone has already told you, you are a brave, brave girl.

Take care.

I've finally found your thread! Thank goodness. Prayers for you for pain relief and respite from the weariness. I hope you're able to see the people you need to, to make this go away.

I am sorry to hear of your pain- I hope that the appointment that you are waiting for will help!

80:
I'm still able to function on my job.
This amazes and impresses me. How do you manage?

Every doctor I see is wonderful, kind, attentive, sensitive and caring.
This makes such a difference psychologically, even if they haven't figured out the solution.

Hoping good things will emerge from your next round of appointments.

Linda, we're almost as good as listening as we are at reading! Sometimes one just has to unload their burden. We're here to share it with you.

I love the Ann Fadiman book. It is my "go to" book when I need a mood brightener. Keep it handy. ;-)

Hugs to you, Linda. Please don't worry about sounding self-absorbed. I hope that by sharing your struggles, we can help ease them, or at least your emotional burden.

Linda, I'm so so sorry to hear you are still in so much pain and adding my hopes that a fourth opinion and possible surgery might prove to be the answer at long last.

Like others, I am amazed that you can still function at work so please don't feel bad that you feel a tad depressed - I think that is a perfectly understandable (even normal) reaction to what you are experiencing. I'm so glad the doctors have been understanding so far.

I sit at my desk with tears in my eyes because of all the kind, supportive out reach. Thanks ever so much to all of you!

I hope I can return the generosity of spirit when I am in a better space.

For now, I appreciate all of you!

Sending Happy Thoughts your way. We have missed you around here.

BOOK#4


The The Center of Everything by Laura Moriarty

Have you ever read a book wherein words simply cannot suffice to describe your thoughts and feelings? This is one of those books.

It is incredible, absorbing, emotionally ladened, spot on with perception, strong in character development, terrifically written, endearing, warm, sad, yet joyous and, at times, humorous.

This is the debut of Laura Moriarty and I'll be sure to read her next books.

Ten year old Evelyn Bucknow lives smack dab in the center of the United States in Kerrville, Kansas. Analogous to a tornado destructively spinning n the heartland of the Midwest, as she tells her story, immediately the reader is sucked into her tumultuous life.

As events beyond her control seem to rapidly spin, kicking up unwanted debris and tragically whizzing on by, while at times smacking her face down in the ground, Evelyn's clear perception of her life is so wonderfully told that I wanted to read the book from cover - cover in one sitting.

Packed with many themes, the author poignantly tells the story of a young girl wise beyond her age, forced to live with a mother whose selfish and unintelligent decisions spill into the lives of others, causing Evelyn to be the adult and parent.

As Evelyn grows, she has clothes and shoes that don't fit and a mother who doesn't notice or care. Living in low income housing, Evelyn is consistently bullied by those richer than she. With little support, this feisty, spunky girl learns who to trust and how to fend for herself.

When her mother's relationship with a married man results in a child who is challenged; when her mother's stubbornness results in the inability to hold a job, when the only person Evelyn trusts is stolen away by another friend, Evelyn finds inner strength and fortitude to push forward.

Intelligent and bright, Evelyn has keen observations and insights about people, about life, about right wing religion that judges instead of helps and about what society can do to those whom them deem less fortunate.

I loved this book! Highly recommended.

Glad you got another good book under your belt Linda. And that you're back posting again, even if it is from under a cloud. It's a hard road where pain is concerned, it colours every aspect of your life. As everyone else has said (or thought)....keep talking to us!

Oh, Linda! My heart goes out to you and I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. The Center of Everything sounds wonderful and I am adding it to my never ending wishlist. *hugs*

Linda, I'm so sorry to hear that you're in such pain. Please take care.

Oh Linda, I'm sorry to hear about the continuing pain and are also amazed with what you still accomplish in a day. I hope that the next step to your recovery brings about some well earned changes and that you feel better. You are an incredible lady for going through this and it is not self-absorbed to mention it here, it is called sharing with friends. :)

Also really happy that you read such a great book, I know that the memory of a good book just read can keep me smiling for days.

I also am just totally amazed that you can continue to work with that level of pain! Like everyone else, I am so very, very sorry that you are being subjected to such pain and pray fervently for some means of relief for you to be effective. {{{HUGS}}}

And I'll have to check out The Center of Everything, especially since it takes place in my home state, the center of the US.

Hello to all and thanks again for your lovely support.

When in pain or crisis, I always turn to my old friends -- books! I also find that I am going to my two local libraries more often than usual. I simply find a chair and read, and/or walk through the stacks and choose a few to look at while I'm there.

BOOK #5

While I'm Falling by Laura Moriarty

Oh, what a disappointment this book is! After reading The Center of Everything, I was eagerly anticipating another wonderful book by the same author.

The story line of a college age girl whose parents are getting a divorce simply felt contrived, flat and lacking of depth.

I finished the book, but long about 1/2 way through I wanted to chuck it out a 20 story window.

Not recommended.

So sorry the second book by Moriarty ended up such a disappointment, especially given how much you loved the first one.

Also very sorry about all the difficulty you have to go through these days. It's perfectly understandable that your spirits might get low in such circumstances. I think given the circumstances, it's quite incredible that you can still keep on and function well at your job! If that doesn't show incredible fortitude and determination, I don't know what else would! I for one, would be a heaping mess and probably wouldn't ever bother to get out to bed!

And you DO reach out ever so much all through your ordeals and obviously are able to care for others.

You've been an angel to me and I love you for it. xx

Your review of The Center of Everything was amazing! I immediately went to see if our school library has it, it doesn't. But I will put it on my list and check my local library. I'm sorry the second book by Moriarty wasn't as good. Hang in there, Linda! Holding you in the Light!

Oh, dear Linda! I haven't visited nor lurked for quite sometime and am so saddened by your continued pain and search for the proper treatment for relief.

I hope and pray you will find someone who will provide you with days and nights that are free of pain. *A gentle hug, my friend*

Dear, dear Linda--I am so sorry for all the pain you are having to endure. Please don't feel guilty about being down. Those who love you will understand, and you can only hurt yourself by trying to hide those feelings.

I'll continue to keep you in my heart, and send comfort to you.

Linda, I note that your 4th thingaversary is coming up the day after my 3rd thingaversary (that is, very soon).

Thanks for being such a special part of LT.

You all are making me cry! Thanks for your love and support!

Hi Linda! I'm sending my love and support too, and a tissue just in case there are any tears left. I wish I could also send you an Oreo Ball, which we made for Matt's 8th birthday. I'm convinced that they fix all manner of hurts. Hugs!

>113 porch_reader: - Amy, just the words "Oreo Ball" I think made my earache temporarily disappear!

Linda, so sorry to hear you're still experiencing such pain. It is not whining, and we don't mine hearing it! Continuing to pray for you, and happy that books can be a friend to you through it all - wishing you many good books this year like The Center of Everything.

Linda, you poor dear. How you can live and function with the level of pain you are suffering I will never know. Like everyone else, I wish you a miracle.
I am praying you will find some solution with your new surgeon... and that it happens very soon.
Peaceful, gentle hugs!

Gentle hugs from me too, Linda. Given all that you and other LTers listened to from me last year, and how kind you have been to all of us, you cannot think that sharing your pain is considered whining. We care about you and always want to know how you are doing. I am so sorry that you are still struggling with such pain and the emotional darkness that too often comes with those kinds of struggles. But it will get better.

The sun will come out.

Really.

And in the meantime, there are books. :)

Well, Linda, this was a dangerous visit for me. Five of your top books for 2011 have just made it on to my 2012 YA list.

Linda, I can only repeat what the others already said. I hope that the surgery (should it come to it) will finally improve the pain situation, and soon and lasting.
This is the place where you can talk about it, please don't call yourself 'self-absorbed'. I admire your strength.

You're amazing, and with any luck you know that. :-*

Love your review of The Center of Everything! I hope your 4th opinion throws some light on things for you.

Sending hugs and healing thoughts your way, Linda.

Happy 4th Thingaversary, Linda!!

You're one of the reasons that LT is such a special place.

>123 lindapanzo: oh that's nice, I wish I'd said it first ;)

Happy 4th!

*Distributing hugs and best wishes whilst passing through*

Happy 4th Thingaversary, Linda!

Happy 4th Thingaversary! So glad you're on LT. You were one of the first people to welcome me when I joined and you've been such a source of support ever since.

Happy Thingaversary, Linda. Wishing you will soon be pain-free...

Hi Linda, Happy New Year! I'm going to try to do it again this year but even if I don't I really enjoy this group. I read the thread of everybody's intro's and it is amazing how multi-talented and varied in interests everyone is!
I liked Confessions of a Common Reader, also.

Hope this year is happy and healthy for you, Linda!

I'm sorry that you continue to be in pain, Linda. I hope that you're able to find relief soon, by whatever method is best for you.

Thanks for your outreach! As readers we all know there are situations wherein words simply cannot express emotion. For me, this is one of those times.

I'm now walking with a cane. Alas, I fought this but because one of the times I fell last week, I braced myself against a door way and broke my finger.

I fear the pain meds are changing my pleasant personality and thus I am gradually cutting back on them and listening to classic music and meditating to help the pain.

Despite it all, I am happy to report that I can indeed find wonderful things in the world. As I write there are six male cardinals and one female cardinal at the bird feeder. They have been here since 8:00 a.m. this morning and are providing quite a magnificent show. The expensive sunflower seeds are well worth the investment!

I've set some goals for when I'm better, including:

a) finding a small church in the area where I can worship
b) participating in the local library program to help with the book programs for small children and YA
c) re-joining the area community center where there are three pools, a sauna and a hot tub.
d) reading with my granddaughter more often
e) spending less time at work and more time for myself.

There are all goals that I can accomplish both now and when I'm better.

In the meantime, in preparation for teaching YA and children book groups, I went to the library yesterday (the first time I've been able to do so in over a month) and I read the following book:


The Richest Doll in the World by Polly Robertus.

The basic story line is about an elderly woman who is dealing with severe grief by replacing the long-ago loss of her little daughter with a doll. All attention is spent on the doll and in the mind of the elderly lady the doll is the object of her affection. Living in a mansion, she is helped by a maid who loves her and tries gently to bring her back to reality.

When the maids granddaughter, who is also struggling with the recent loss of her mother and father, decides she would like to see the doll and the fantastic doll house, a powerful event occurs.

I liked the detail of the book and the story line. It isn't a great book, but still, it held my interest.

Thanks again to all. The beauty of this group is amazing!

And, I wish all good things for you all.

No more falls, Linda! No more broken ANYTHING! Be safe.

Like everyone else I'm hoping you get a Thingaversary present of less pain.

I love your goals. I hope that everyday you can enjoy some movement towards them.

And I love that you were able to go the library yesterday and share that book with all of us.

Linda, you would be perfect helping out in the library with book programs for children and young adults! Actually all of your goals sound like they would be wonderful things for you.

Your pleasant personality doesn't seem like it's in any danger to me. I'm amazed at how you're able to handle things and think ahead to what would be good for you.

Sending lots of love your way.

I can't wait to see you tomorrow! That should cheer you up! (my modest and unassuming personality does that to people)

Linda - I don't like hearing that you fell! I'm so sorry to hear that! I've been thinking about you!

Congratulations on your Thingaversay, Linda. I too, was most upset to read of your fall and broken finger! I have arthritic issues that flare up from time to time and about four years ago one of knees got very bad. I ended up having surgery that relieved the pressure, but I did have to use a cane for a few months and I really hated that. So I understand your reluctance but in the long run, I realized I need that extra support. Hopefully a cane will keep you safer and eliminate any nasty falls. Hang in there, hopefully things will get better.

Linda,

Swamped by my work schedule right now, but hopefully new opinions will help us both.

Let's think positive, at least that can't hurt us.

Belated congratulations on your Thingaversary, Linda!
Please be careful and do use the cane if it helps you. And I just have to quote Pat's words, as I wouldn't be able to say it so well myself:

Your pleasant personality doesn't seem like it's in any danger to me. I'm amazed at how you're able to handle things and think ahead to what would be good for you.

I'm very excited today. Terri Loefler will be meeting me for dinner. Amen!

>131 Whisper1: re-joining the area community center where there are three pools, a sauna and a hot tub.
Love this goal, hope you can take a book in with you :)
Hmmph to your broken finger, and double hmmph to your pain. I hope a good soak in a hot spa will help, and all your goals sound great things to look forward to.

Have a great time at dinner tonight. I think it would be great if you became involved in your library's children program, it would be such a great benefit to your community.

For two years now a friend and I have been volunteering at a local elementary school spending time reading with children who they feel don't have an adult reading influence in their life and it has been wonderful and sad at the same time. The kids are great and we love spending time with them. Unfortunately they don't seem to have a great life and we're hoping that we can do some good in their lives. When we asked them what books they had at home they said they didn't have any so we have been sending some home with them in the hopes that they start reading at home.

and please try and stay upright, falling is not fun and you don't want to further injure yourself.

Yay! Have fun at dinner!

Linda, I hope you and Terri have a great time at dinner.

Oh, have a wonderful dinner!

I hope you're recovering well from the fall and broken finger and not in even more pain. :(

I just spoke to Terri. She and her son are a mere 35 minutes away. I am starting to get very teary at the thought of seeing my dear friend again.

We will raise a toast to all our wonderful LT friends in the hope that some day we can all meet together!

How I wish you all could be here to join us.

#144

Mary, how I wish you could join us. It was ever so lovely to meet you at Richard's party last year!

>146 Whisper1: How sweet of you to say so. I wish I could get all of us back together again - what a fun time, and how quickly we all talked like we'd known each other for years! :)

Just stopping by to say that I'm thinking of you.

Also, I would very much like to have another big meetup again! I'm looking forward to the DC one in June, and hopefully some people will also be in New York in April.

Maybe we could also arrange a meetup somewhere closer to you, Linda, so that you wouldn't have to travel far.

Shoot. Missed your Thingaversary! Hope it was a happy one --- Terri's visit sounds like it might be an extension of that celebration. I eagerly wait to see what goodies you're treating yourself to. (And Ex Libris is absolutely one of my favorite books of essays.)
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF!!!

Terri is good medicine! I wish I could join you for dinner tonight. She is so excited about this trip to NYC... And seeing you again.

Linda, don't you know that canes are cool? You should buy the jazziest one you can find. Think of how handy it will be for getting Will's attention!

Congrats on 4 years on LT. I hope one of your goals is to stay as active as possible here. You add a special blend of warmth and kindness to this group.

Oh my. I got way behind. Happy Thingaversary!

I am sorry that you are still having to endure so much pain. Sending lots of prayers and good thoughts your way.

The storyline of The Richest Doll in the World certainly intrigues me, but I saw the rating you gave that book and think I'll spend my time reading other things instead. Goodness knows I have so many amazing books to choose from; in no small part because of my lovely LT friends. ;-)

I'm glad to see you've been having some good times and seeing friends. Pictures?

Your fortitude and determination all wrapped up with so much grace are quite amazing to witness.

xoxo

I hope you had a great time with Terri and her son! Wish I could have been there.

Happy Thingaversary, Linda! So sorry to hear of your broken finger! I have osteoporosis and so far I have broken a wrist and a foot in a small fall, and also have at least one compression fracture in my spine, so I really feel for you. Pain and fractures are no fun. Take care!

I hope you all had a nice dinner together.

I hope your broken finger mends quickly.

Linda, Your review of The Richest Doll in the World reminded me of my grandmother. Her family was not well off, but not DIRT-poor, either. She was given a beautiful china doll by a rich relative when she was very young. Her mother put it away and wouldn't let her play with it. I don't know why. Maybe she thought Dorothea was too little and would break it, maybe it was too nice for country folk, maybe she didn't want her spoiled? But Grandma once talked of the day that a very poor family rode up in a wagon on their way through, and asked if they had any food to spare. Her mother gave them a meal, then sent Dorothea to her room. She watched out the window as her mother tucked more food into their wagon, and handed her china doll to the little girl of that family. She watched the little girl playing with the doll that she'd never gotten to play with, as their wagon rolled away. In the telling, all those years later, it still seemed to break her heart. My little sister gave her a china doll for her next Christ-mas present, and she just sat there holding it, with tears running down her cheeks.

Oh my. That is so sad.

Oh Cindy...What a sad story and I'm very sure your mother's heart was broken. And, what a kind little sister you have to give your mother such a sensitive present.

Hello everyone! I'll post more later. I'm weary today and staying home from work to rest. I rarely miss work, but I'm weary.

The time with Terri was incredible. Her son is a gem! I'll post photos as soon as I learn how to use this brand new camera Will gave me for Christmas.

Zoe, I do wish you and all could have been with us. It was a marvelous time and yes, you are quite right. Meeting each other is magical. It truly does feel as though we have known each other for a long, long time. Conversation flows easily and the laughs are merry.

I saw Jim's message that Janet in London had passed away. This is indeed sad news. She was such a lovely, lovely lady.

Oh no! I am really shocked to hear about Janet (in London). Im also shocked at how sad that makes me feel. But when you have written such lovely things about LT meetups and what a great community it is here, its no wonder we care about each other.

#156 Cindy, that is indeed a sad story. I imagine that your great grandmother thought she was doing a good thing by giving the doll to people who were so desperately in need. And that little girl must have cherished that doll dearly, not that that would've been much consolation for your grandmother.

Linda, I'm so sorry that you're not feeling well enough to go to work today. But then again I'm glad you're listening to your body and giving yourself the rest you obviously need.

Sad news about Janet's passing.

This group has indeed become a surrogate family for me. We share each other's joys and sorrows and pains; life stories and big and small delights too.

Linda--I am sorry to hear you are still plagued by pain. I hope you find healing soon, whether it be surgery or not. Like you, I am still not pain free after my surgery, but mine is holding steady at a much lower level. And I still get weepy and pissed off, so don't feel bad about it. Okay? Much love and congrats on your Thingaversary!!

Linda - Just stopping to catch up. I'm sorry that you were not feeling well.

156 What a sad story. I wonder, did her mother ever realize how much she hurt her by doing that? Seems so cruel.

OH my goodness, Cindy! Wrong all around!!! It's scary how badly we can treat each other with the very best of intentions.
Hi, Linda. I'm delighted that you and Terri had such a good time - good tonic!
Hope your day at home set you up for today and tomorrow. I'm afraid that you aren't kind enough to yourself in the normal run of things.

Good evening, Linda. I hope your extra day of rest gave you a little more strength, and am so glad you had such a lovely visit with Terri and her son.

((Hugs)), lovey

Linda my dear, you already know I'm totally empathetic about your pain issues, so I'll move to: When do you meet with Doctor Four? I just can't imagine working outside the home in 8-9 pain. I cannot do it. I think you're a miracle...so loving, so very generous of your kindness and support and general all-around sweetness...and I am a complete curmudgeon, a troll under the bridge of LT snapping and snarling and every so often rending an innocent little traveler limb from limb.

Although it *is* a lot of grins being like this. Maybe you could give it a whirl for a while! I'll try being kind and nice, just to balance things out.

Nah. Never work. Even if I managed, I'd scare the people.

{{{Linda}}}

*smooch*

Hi Linda, I am so sorry that you are in so much pain. I can't imagine working with 8-9 pain level. That's just unbelievable. Good luck with this 4th opinion. (((Linda)))

Dear Linda here's wishing you a lovely weekend free from pain and full of comfort, care and perfectly crafted chapters.

Linda, I hope you are getting some good rest over the weekend. Take care!

Hello to all! Your very kind words cheer me. It was an icy, cold, snowy NE PA day. But, the wonderment of it all was that the cardinals put on quite a show and dance today. Throughout the day they visited our yard and bird feeder. Will and I were enthralled for hours as we watched six-seven male, bright red cardinals and two-three females flit, fly and perform magnificently.

Then, at dusk, three deer visited on the hill above our yard space. It was a lovely day.

And, kudos to Will for driving me in the nasty snow for an 8:00 a.m. acupressure appointment. We had no idea the roads were as nasty as they were.

I'm reading and resting today. I finished a wonderful book -- that I highly recommend. Get your hands on A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness. I'm going out on a limb to say I don't think you will be disappointed.

Goodness gracious, how did I fail to star your thread immediately? Nearly missed it entirely, but now I will try to catch up. I hope you're feeling a bit better after resting.

Hi Linda, I'm also wishing you some pain free time. So happy that you enjoyed A Monster Calls, wasn't it a wonderful reading experience.

Linda, be sure to let me know how the acunpunture does in the pain relief area. I'm hope one day we can both get moving pain-free toward a meet-up. I think we should plan a spa day for that great occasion!

Your day sounds lovely, Linda. It's the small things that bring quiet enjoyment to our lives that we often overlook. I love to watch the birds that come to our feeder, this time of year we see a fair number of Flickers, but of course, no Red Cardinals out here.

A Monster Calls is going on my wishlist.

I hope the acupuncture helps with the pain, Linda. I'm so glad you had a wonderful time with Terri and her son. I can't wait to see the pictures. :-) (no pressure .. I'll just keep lurking on your thread until you post them)

Hello Linda! I went out early yesterday morning to get gas. The worst road was the one front of the school - it never gets plowed. But I love the stability control in car! I hope the accupressure helps!

#171: I just read A Monster Calls too. Glad to see you think of it as highly as I do, lovey.

((Hugs)) for today

Well... here you are.. I am glad to see you here..

How are you doing???

hugs

Can the dragon this year scare away pain?

Linda, you never fail to inspire with that way you have of finding beauty in every day even in the midst of pain. Thank you for being you!

I have to admit that I'm reluctant to read anything else by Patrick Ness after The Ask and the Answer. Very well-written, but horribly bleak and depressing and just an unpleasant reading experience overall. Is there any glimmer of hope in A Monster Calls?

I actually liked Ness's Chaos Walking books, but I have the same sort of hesitation as Zoë about picking up anything else by Ness. I've heard a lot about A Monster Calls, but I just haven't been able to convince myself that reading it would be a good idea.

Linda, so sorry to hear about your fall. Take care of yourself - I'm sorry I don't manage to stop by your thread more often.

And so glad you enjoyed A Monster Calls - I read it last year and LOVED it :-)

#181 Zoe - I thought it was a very hopeful book. It was an emotional read and it did make me cry (a lot) but that it was in a good way rather than a depressed way (if that makes sense?).

Will sounds like a wonderful and supportive partner, good on him!
It's nice that you find pleasure in small things like birds and wild life. Not enough people slow down to enjoy things that like any more!

ok, now I'm going to have to check out A Monster Calls!

eta: its at our library, but currently all copies in use, Ill be waiting for it (sigh, like I need a 6th book to read, or an 18th book on my asap library list)

BOOK#7


A Monster Calls by Patrick Ness

Yes, this is a dark tale and it took some time to get with the flow and to understand that the monster who calls and visits Connor is truly the dark side of a little boy who is in the throes of grief and simply cannot process the pain and his feelings of loss, anger and rejection. Yet, amid the darkness of the story, I found that I was enthralled and engaged in the beauty of it all.

Bullied in school, unable to stand up for himself or his feelings, Connor deeply represses his emotions. Denying that his mother is close to death and that cancer is rapidly taking her life away, Connor trudges along in the hope that somehow there will be a miracle cure and all will be well.

An absentee father, a grandmother with whom he cannot relate, and teachers who are over solicitous but well intended, Connor has no outlet save for a tree in his yard that turns into a black, nightmare in the wee hours.

As the tree/monster brings tales to Connor, he learns lessons that require him to examine his emotions and thoughts.

Highly recommended. If you have time, please check the reviews written about this book. You won't be disappointed in the reviews or the book!

I downloaded the audio version of A Monster Calls last night and listened to the first 4 chapters. It's indeed beautiful, but at the same time emotionally difficult for me to listen (reading would be easier). I have a bit of a problem believing the bully story though (not the bullying itself, but that the initiator is someone who should really know better - I can't imagine this happening in my own school days), but I understand it is used as a means to show how deep Connor's isolation really is.

Wonderful review, thumbed.

#181: I listened to the preface by the author yesterday, and it's not his own plot, it follows an idea by Siobhan Dowd, a successful author of YA books, who died of cancer before she could work it out herself. Ness complemented the existing fragments, so AMC could well be different from his other books.

>186 Whisper1:: I added that book after seeing it on Stasia's thread, and your review inspires me to find it even sooner. It sounds very, very powerful.

Just dropping by with a hug and continuing best wishes for a positive resolution to the whole pain thing. I haven't read it but have friends who have: Jon Kabat- Zinn, the first American to train and succeed as a Buddhist monk in Tibet, has written a book about managing pain through meditation: Mindfulness Meditation for Pain Relief. I have no idea if it is any good or not but they said it helped them cope (one had post cancer chemo pain).

Hi Linda. Just dropping by to see how you're doing today. I hope the accupressure appointment brought some relief.

Good morning, dear! Hope you're doing well!

Just wanted to say hi and a happy (and very late) Thingaversary. I hope you're having a restful day (although I think you are at work, so probably not...).

Loved reading about the cardinals and am going to look on Wikipedia to see what they look like!

Stopping by to add my wishes for pain relief and some gentle {{{hugs.}}}

Hi Linda! I'm slowly catching up on threads, and feeling a bit like Sisyphus at the moment.

I mentioned on my thread yesterday that Jack Gantos won the 2011 Newbery Medal for Dead End in Norvelt.

Waving hello!

Hey Linda! Just swinging by to say that I hope you are feeling less pain.

Sandy K

I am always so glad to see you here.. I hope that you are having some good day?

Hi there Linda! I hope the cardinals greet you with their scarlett appearance this morning and may it be just the beginning of a good day.
I very much approve of you to do list. I think it will bring peace to your mind, body and spirit.
You really are the epitome of strength!

Glad you loved your latest read, and I for one will be checking it out one day soon. Hope youre feeling well today :)

Hello, dear one! I hope you are doing a bit better.

Here's hoping this week has improved for you. I'm excited to read A Monster Calls now -- I'll have to get a hold of a copy.

Hi, Linda! Hope you are feeling better this week.

I just finished reading Inside Out & Back Again, one of this year's Newbery honor books. I think you will like it, when you get a chance to read it!

Just stopping by to say hello!

Hi Linda, hope you are feeling better.

checking in .. leaving hugs

It's the nosy neighbour wanting to know how you are doing. Warm thoughts!

Just checking in to see how you're doing, Linda.

BOOK #8

And Never Let Her Go by Ann Rule



When a rich, politically well connected, manipulative, sociopath met, lured, and seduced 30 year old Anne Marie Fahey, her life and those of others dramatically changed.

Impressionable and vulnerable, Anne Marie knew he was married and the father of four, but she did not know that he also had concurrent numerous serious relationships, including a 20 year old affair with another woman he claimed to love.

Sadly, her life ended when Thomas Capano could no longer control every action, including the fact that she no longer wanted to be with him, and thus he brutally murdered her.

Soliciting his younger, impressionable brother to help dispose the body in the ocean in shark infested, Atlantic City, NJ "maco alley", Capano had no reservations about using a cooler to transport the body onto the boat and dump it in the water far away from shore.

When the cooler did not sink, Capano ordered his brother to shoot bullets into the vessel. As the blood flowed, his brother knew, beyond a doubt that the person he idolized had done something wrong, something very, very wrong.

As the web tightened and law enforcement officials beyond a doubt, traced the murder to Capano, he blithely, unhesitantly blamed all others, including his long time lover and his brother.

In the end, the lives of many were ruined. As the jury brought the verdict of guilt, and he was subsequently given the death penalty, Capano was shocked that they, unlike the vulnerable women he cultivated, saw through his charm and recognized the cold, brutal killer he was.

This is a fascinating look at the sick criminal mind of Thomas Capano. Recommended for those who like to read true crime.

Here is a link I found regarding the case:

http://www.trutv.com/library/crime/notorious_murders/classics/capano/5a.html

Linda - glad you enjoyed the book. True crime is not for me, so I will be staying far far away!

Hello to all.

I deeply appreciate your visits. The beginning of a new semester and continued high pain level have kept me from doing many things I love, including connecting with my friends here on LT.

As always, I deeply appreciate your outreach.

I hope your pain levels haven't been keeping you from reading. Now, get to that spa and start soaking please :)

Just stopping by to see how you're doing. Hugs and best wishes, Linda!


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great review! I haven't read much true crime but that book sounds like a good place to star!

Linda, I hope that this semester sees you turn the corner in your pain management!
I can't read true crime ---- graphic, hard-boiled mysteries don't bother me a bit, but knowing that a horrendous thing really happened gives me serious willies. Glad your last one kept you occupied though!

With a help from a dear friend, I'm learning how to post photos from my new camera.

Here is photo #1 of Terri Loeffler's visit

Terri in front, Will and I in the back.

Photo #2
Terri and me

Terri and her wonderful son Keith!

Terri, Keith and me

Lovely Terri!

Wonderful pictures. My goodness, how tall IS Keith? He looks about 7 ft. next to the two of you, and I know Terri is not a short person.

Keith is tall..tall..tall

Photo of winter cardinals at the feeder during last week storm

Thanks for sharing those wonderful pictures with us, Linda. It looks like you had a lovely day together.

Winter storm doesn't sound good, but I am a little jealous of all the snow. The forecast had promised some for this weekend, but as usual all the snow fell on the mountains and nothing of it reached the valley where I live.

Have a relaxing Sunday! Sending gentle (((hugs))).

Beautiful pictures and happy faces!

Hello to all

I'm knocking on your door asking support. A dear friend of 30 years most likely will be transitioning to another life today. A few days ago, I shared with Stasia that Ann is gravely ill. While originally she did not want extra ordinary measures, a week ago she changed her mind and asked to be placed on a ventilator.

I've visited her this week and spent time with the family. Last Thursday I had the remarkable blessing of being with her for a short time when she was coherent and, while she could not talk because of all the tubes, she was able to speak with her eyes and nod. I shared many memories and was able to know she was smiling as together we traveled down memory lane. I was able to see her on the day she rallied before she slipped into a coma like state. Friday night Will graciously drove me to Lehigh Valley hospital and from midnight - 4:00 a.m. he kept vigil in the waiting room, allowing as much time as I needed to hold Ann's hand and be present.

The hospital had a night-time feeling while all around those who were hooked to tubes were in a robot-like trance. I knew that it was time for her and this truly was not the way to live. Her family also knew it was time to encourage her to transition. Yesterday morning there was a small window of opportunity and in working with the family, it was expressed to her that there was no future hope. With the hospital staff supervision, she was taken off the ventilator.

Remarkably, while her heart and lungs call for air, she continues to struggle. We are emotionally and physically exhausted as today we hope that she will cross the finish line.

Thanks for your support during this time.

I'll be thinking of you and Ann today. I hope her passing will be quick and painless.

Holding you in my thoughts today, Linda. I have a friend at long distance who I suspect is going through this same transition, or shortly will be. I haven't been lucky enough to be able to say good-bye as you have done----I'm very glad you had that time with Ann. You are a wonderful friend.

So much love to you, Linda: you are one of the great souls. Hoping that this time will not be terribly painful for you.

{{{Linda}}}

Linda, that's the toughest thing in the entire world that friends and family are called on to do. She is so lucky to have you.

I'll hold a special place in my heart and prayers for you, Ann and your wonderful friendship. Give Will an extra hug, too.

(and thank you for the wonderful pictures).

#226 Linda, I will be thinking of and praying for both you and Ann today. Hugs

Linda, I also will be thinking of you and Ann and hoping her transition is as easy as possible. I'm sure your presence will be an immense help to her and her family. As Gail said, you truly are one of the great souls.

Linda, I hope for a peaceful passing for Ann. You are wonderful, and you are in my thoughts.
Sending you hugs

I wish she, and you, a peaceful and gentle time. I know how difficult the process can be. Grammie passed away at the end of October last year and she battled so hard to go but her body wouldn't let go.

When she finally did, it was so peaceful. I hope she can have that as well. It sounds like she is getting the best of care.

May she rest in peace. And take care of yourself. Your love for her surrounds her and shines through.

Saying an extra prayer for you and your friend Ann. It's always a sad time. *smooch*

And thank you for the pictures! They're great! Although I'm sure everyone's thinking "Wonderful? He looks mad at the world!" He's not, he just hates having his picture taken. And Roni, he's 6'7". A big boy. And a wonderful one.

Oh, Linda, it is so hard to let go. Even when it is time. May this struggle come to a quick and gentle end, and hugs and prayers for you, Ann, and her family.

Linda, how terribly sad for you and your friend and her family. I bet she is so thankful that you could be there for her in what must be her last days.
Thinking of you and hoping for a calm and quiet passing if that is what will happen.

Wonderful photos btw, great to see.

I'll light a candle for Ann, and I hold you, Ann, and both of your families in my prayers and thoughts. May she cross over peacefully.

Thank you for the fun photos!

Linda, my thoughts and prayers are also with you and your friend today. Please remember how much we all care for you, and would like to help you through this difficult time. I know you are being strong for your friend and her family, but also know, we are here to support you through your grieving process.

Thoughts and prayers from me too, Linda. And hugs. And tears, if needed. I'm good at tears too.

Linda what a touching and heartrending post and what a lovely caring friend you are! Like the idea of transition - hopefully there is a better place coming up for your friend. As an occasional asmatic I know the terror of fighting for breath and can only imagine the difficulties your poor friend is having to face. Love and best wishes dear lady!

I'm sending prayers for you and Ann, Linda. I know that your strength and friendship have meant so much to her. May Ann find peace and comfort.

Thinking about you and Ann today. Peace and blessings to you both.

{{hugs}}

Sympathy and hugs, my friend

Prayers and hugs at this most difficult time

Thinking of you and Ann
(((( hugs ))))

I'm so sorry about Ann, Linda. I'm sure you lifted her spirits when you walked her down memory lane and happier times. My prayers and hugs go out to you, Ann and her family during this difficult time.

So sorry to hear about Ann. Prayers and warm thoughts for you, and for her and her family.

Linda, I'm so sorry to hear about Ann. So very, very sad.

Stopping by your thread to say hello--I'm very, very sorry about your friend and I wish you strength in a difficult time.

My dear friend passed on yesterday. It was a difficult transition. She was removed from the ventilator Saturday morning and hung on and on and on.

It is a hard week. I'm also dealing with students in grief. A young girl (21) whom I supervised and was a previous editor of the student newspaper died this past weekend.

Life is good, but challenging at times.

Linda, I'm so sorry to read about your friend Ann, and your students too. I hope the rest of your week is peaceful.

Whilst I am saddened for your loss, I am glad for you, and especially for Ann, that she is now at peace, and the struggle is over. I hope that now you will have the time and space to grief.

And I am so so sorry for you and the students, and for those who knew and loved the young girl. How bitter it is, when people go too soon.

Hugs to you, Linda. You are so kind and such a special person. Ann was blessed to have known you and have you beside her in her final hours.

Oh Linda - life does seem very hard for you at the moment. Thinking of you and hoping you can rest and grieve over the next few weeks.

thanks for taking time to post Linda, take care of yourself now, and be sure we're thinking of you still.

Sorry to hear of the passing of your friend Linda but it sounds like it was the Maker's way of being most merciful.

Sorry about your friend and the tough week you are having. Hugs!

Hugs to you in your grief!


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Linda, I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear friend and your young student. What a difficult time but you seem to handle it with such grace. Sending lots of love your way.

Thanks to all for your lovely, kind, sensitive comments. I'm exhausted from bedside vigils by Ann's side and then coming into the office helping the young students grapple with their loss of a friend.

The university handles these situations oh so well. They will have three buses to transport students to Long Island, NY for the service of their fellow student. Then there will be a service on Lehigh's campus next week.

The service for my friend Ann will be very small and held on Saturday.

I need rest and may take 1/2 day vacation tomorrow to sleep in.

That sounds like a good idea. One long, slow {bear hug}.

Take care of yourself Linda.

((Hugs)) for today, lovey

I do hope you are sleeping in this morning, Linda. You certainly deserve some time to regroup for the emotional stresses of the coming week.

Remember to be mindful of your own needs Linda..
you do know how important that is, I know.. just reminding ..
hugs

Thinking of you and praying for strength today.

Linda, I am so sorry, I don't have words to express it. I wish you all the strength you need in this sad and difficult time. And please take good care of yourself. Sending (((hugs)))

Such a hard couple of weeks. I am so sorry. I hope you got the rest you need. Sending hugs and prayers your way.

BOOK #9

Heaven by Angela Johnson

When 12 year old Marley discovers that she is adopted, her perception of who she is and the parents who raised her is turned upside down.

Learning that her uncle is her biological father, she struggles to define truth.

This book is well written and the characters are all very likeable. As a parent of an adopted daughter I didn't feel the issues were depicted as in depth as they should/could have been.

BOOK #10

An Elephant in the Garden by Michael Morpurgo

I loved this book! It is yet another wonderful example of how Young Adult genre transcends a specific age category.

During WWII Dresden Germany was blasted/bombed unmercifully. This is a tale of an older woman, now in a nursing home, who recounts the story of her brave mother who worked in the zoo and fearing that an elephant she had tended since its childhood would die in the war, brought the animal home.

When Dresden was bombed the family left the ruined city and made a trek westward with the elephant in tow.

This is an insightful story of an elephant who was saved and in turn saved a family.

Highly recommended.

#272: Adding that one to the BlackHole. Thanks for the recommendation!

Having just finished and enjoyed War Horse by Michael Murpurgo, I'll have to add An Elephant in the Garden to the list!

Hugs to you, my friend!

Oh my Linda you have so much on your plate right now. Ann was so fortunate to have you for a friend and now that she is at peace maybe you will find some peace as well. You are an exceptional person and the fact that you continue to care for all those you come in contact with while enduring so much pain. {{{Linda}}}

I didn't know Michael Morpurgo wrote War Horse. I loved his Private Peaceful. Now An Elephant in the Garden is on the wishlist. One day I turned on the computer to find the new background said, "I want a baby elephant really, really, really, really, really, really bad." My 16 year old, certainly old enough to know we'd never be getting an elephant! But just in love with the creatures. This looks like a book that I need to actually buy, so she can read it, too. Nice review, Linda.

Just a wave to let you know I'm thinking about you:)

Gentle ((hugs)), and just wanted to let you know I'm thinking & praying for you in your loss.

An Elephant in the Garden looks good...onto the ever-growing TBR pile! :)

{{{Linda}}}

Hi Linda, hope you got that sleep in you so needed. And that you are well.
*not looking at book recommendations for now*

Oh my Dear Linda. I am thinking of you and holding you, Ann and her family in the Light. Hang in there! {{{Hugs}}}

Oh Linda, after catching up with your thread I find myself at a loss for words. I am so sorry to hear about your friend and I know how hard the last week must have been. It was so good to see the photos you posted as it made me feel closer to you and feel like I know you better, you have the most amazing smile so I hope it gets used as often as possible.

Lastly, so pleased you enjoyed An Elephant in the Garden, that was one of my stand out excellent surprise reads from last year and I just love elephants so twice the love.

Hi Linda. Just checking in to see how you're doing. I'm hoping you'll have some major down time this weekend to relax and recharge. You are such a dear person.

Thanks to all for stopping by. The service for my friend Ann will be today. She will be celebrated!

Take care Linda... you will be in my thoughts, as always.

BOOK #11

Joey Pigza Loses Control by Jack Gantos

This 2001 Newbery Honor book is well deserving of the award. It is yet another excellent example of the YA genre that resonates with all age groups.

Joey Pigza has ADHD. Well aware that he needs the medicinal patches to control his frenetic behavior, Joey has learned that without the patches, he is another person.

When Joey's mother reluctantly allows him to spend six weeks with his father, it is a test to see who is more out of control -- the son or the father.

Throwing away the patches, Joey's self absorbed father encourages Joey to be a man. Surrounded by a oxygen-toting, chain-smoking grandmother, a six-pack an hour father, while Joey's mind and body are bouncing off the wall, he is the voice of logic and he quickly realizes that his self absorbed father has little thought for others.

This is a humorous, yet poignantly sad tale of a child who is wiser than his father. As he listens to hour after hour after hour of his father's stories while his father takes no time or energy to know him, Joey deeply appreciates the two steady forces in his life, his funny, spunky dog and his loving, kind, other-directed mother.

While deprived of his much needed meds, Joey still has the clarity to call his mother to come to the rescue.

Highly recommended!

#271 - I hear you. As an adoptive parent myself, I am often less than impressed with the way adoption is handled in books and film. I tend to avoid such, too frustrating.

Great review of An Elephant in the Garden! I'm so glad you enjoyed it too.

Great review of Joey Pigza Loses Control. Trying to get Yassie to buy (well with my money) some of the more cutting edge YA books (mainly so I can read em too).

Hope you are having a peaceful weekend and I would like to say a little thank you for taking the time to stop by and cheer Bambi on when I know you must be a bit down at the moment. xx

Thinking of you today, Linda.

Joey Pigza sounds like a fun book!

Linda, I am thinking of you and praying for you, as I always do.

Alan

Hi Linda, I'm spending a delightful Sunday reading both threads and books. I hear that you know of a good eye doctor. Would you ask Will if it is possible to wear out a set of eyes?

Thank you for posting those lovely pictures of Terri and Keith's visit. Such happy smiles all around.

I am so sad for you in losing your wonderful friend Ann. You're a pretty wonderful friend yourself. Please take care and give yourself plenty of time to mourn and heal.

Hi Everyone

Donna, Will said that it is not possible to wear out a set of eyes. The older you get, of course, like other parts of the body, there can be problems and as we know, vision may deteriorate..But, eyes just keep on looking and seeing.

Hi Alan. Thanks for stopping by.

Caro, as always...a pleasure!

Linda, I just wanted to stop by and say that I loved your story of Will's proposal. So Sweet. xx

Hi Linda, adding Joey Pigza to my tbr list.

>295 nittnut: me too :)

Hello, Linda!!!

I found your thread. I am so happy.

I will come back to read more posts soon.

Love to you and the friends posting here that we share. We are so fortunate, humh?

Just stopping by to see how you're doing. Take care of yourself, friend.

Hi Linda. Just stopping by to see how you're doing. You've had some good reads lately. :)

Stopping to give you a big HUG!

I am having a very difficult day. My friend Ann died last Monday and today Will and I had to say goodbye to our Simon. He was our beloved dog for the last 12 years.

I cannot stop crying.

Oh, no! I'm so sorry. {{{{hugs}}}} for you both.

How awful. But what wonderful lives they both had, with love until the last. Take care of yourself, and please accept my sympathies.

Oh Linda, I am so sorry for you both! In this case I really know how you feel. Simon must have been such a darling, the pictures say it all. Sending you (((hugs)))

Oh Linda, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of Simon. I can only imagine what two losses so close together must feel like. Hugs.

I am so sorry Linda that you lost Simon, I know you are heartbroken...
Thinking of you

Vale Simon, be happy at the Rainbow Bridge.

Oh, no, Linda. I'll be thinking of you. I'm sorry you've had to go through so many difficult things in such a short period of time.

Linda, I'm so sorry to hear about Simon. I know how important he was to you. And thank you for posting the pictures. Such a noble looking dog.

Oh Linda, I'm so sorry you lost two dear ones! Such a horrible week.
Hope you and Will are holding up ok!
Hugs!!

Linda, so sorry to hear about Simon. You, my dear, have had a trying year so far, and I hope this is the end of your troubles. Hugs to you.

I posted this email today to friends and now I am sharing it here with my LT friends:

Dear Friends:

My heart feels so heavy and sad. Ann, my friend of 30 years, died last Monday and today (this Monday) Will and I had to take our beloved dog Simon to an animal hospital where, because of our love for him, we knew it was best he was given an injection to pass along.

We awoke this morning to quite a mess on the carpet. We bathed Simon but he did not object as he usually does. He was lethargic and unable to walk.

Luckily our vet was able to see him right away and then paved the way for us to take Simon to the animal hospital. By the time we arrived, Simon was badly bleeding internally.

An ultra sound indicated mass cancerous tumors throughout his kidneys. The kind veterinarian explained that it is not unusual for sudden onset symptoms to occur and that many people are left with guilt because they believe they should have known when truly there was no way to detect this until it was too late.

We were able to spend a short time to pet Simon and say goodbye. Will was crying and opted not to be in the room when Simon was given the injection. I stayed and it was ever so difficult.

Simon was with me through a lot of transition. I will miss him.
And because Ann and I traveled many journeys, I am still mourning her.

Because Will is retired, Simon was his buddy throughout the day. Will comments that somehow he "never thought of Simon as a dog." This is a tough loss for us because for 12 years it seemed that Simon followed us everywhere and now, we somehow expect that he is at our side or happily walking behind.

I cannot stop crying. I'm a mess. Thanks for the fact that I know you care. It helps!

Love
Linda

Linda, I sometimes think the loss of a dear pet is one of the hardest losses of all. They spend so much time with us and give us unconditional love and bring so much joy into our lives. I completely understand how wrenching it can be to have them suddenly gone. And to loose Simon so unexpectedly while you are still mourning the death of a dear friend, must be very difficult. My heart goes out to you.

I'm so sorry, Linda.

Linda - typing this away from my loved ones including the animal members of our extended family - and you have brought a grown (some would say overgrown) and ofttimes hardfaced man to tears with your moving story about poor Simon's last day. Very difficult decision but transparently the right one as the pain must have been nigh unendurable for him. Poor Mr. Thursday and poor dear dear Linda just when you are reeling from one bitter blow to be hit by another. Draw strength from each other you two lovely people and strength from all your friends including the many of us all here on LT. Best wishes always from Paul, SWMBO and the tribe.xx

Linda, I am so sorry to hear of your loss- both your friend and then a beloved animal companion. I know how difficult this can be- take care.

I don't have anything to add to what's already been said except to say that I am so sorry. With the physical pain and the pain of your losses, you're in a deep valley right now. One step at a time, one day at a time.

Hugs from one Sheltie lover to another.

Only sunflowers are proper to commemorate your sunshine boy, Simon.

I sit here crying at the outreach. What an amazing group we have here with our 75 challenge friends.

Amen, and Amen to all.

Thank you from the bottom (and top) of my heart.

So sorry Linda. {{{hugs}}}

Oh, Linda, I am just catching up with your thread...I am so, so sorry for your losses--your dear friend, Ann and your darling dog, Simon. Words fail me. Please know that you are in my thoughts. Sending strength and positive energy your way.

{{{{HUGS}}}}

Sandy K

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Not Simon!
Oh Linda... I'm so sorry for your loss and pain in losing two beloved friends.
Loki and I send our love to you and Will. It is so hard... so very hard.
We had a similar story with our last sheltie, Charlee. Shelties are so sweet and loyal. Our hearts broke. I do know how you feel. It's awful. We cried a lot too.

{{{{Linda & Will}}}}

Poor Linda, you've had too much to go through, truly you have. Ive got tears in my eyes reading about Simon's last day. It must have been an awful thing to go and do, but you had to. Im sure you know that he knew of your love for him.
Take care of yourself x

Oh, honey - I just now got caught up on your thread. I can't believe all that you've been through, and yet you're still holding together. You are amazing. I can't say anything that hasn't already been said before, but I send my love and prayers to you and hope that life will begin to smooth out for you soon. ((((hugs)))))

So sorry, Linda.

Linda, I too am just catching up after too long an absence, and am so sad to read of your losses and your tears - how devastating it must be to suffer a double blow like this in such a short time - especially when our dear animal friends can be such a comfort when we are feeling sad. Sending hugs and prayers your way.

Linda - my thoughts are with you. Losing a beloved pet is so hard and so close to having lost your good friend.

Dear Linda, I am so sorry about Simon. It's just stunning how much we miss them. I know from your message on my thread that you know about my Jack and how we are grieving his loss since Friday. I miss him so much--miss talking to him, miss just having him around. Jack was 12 years old, as was your Simon. Love never dies--that's what I feel so strongly whenever I think of my dear Jack. God bless you.

Linda, I'm so sorry for the additional wrench in your life by the loss of Simon so soon after Ann. I'm sorry you didn't more time with him, but I know he had the best that life could have offered him living with you. I believe animals have souls, so I know he's having a grand ol' time in doggy heaven and that he'll visit you from time to time, just to say hello.

Oh Linda, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved Simon. Our pets truly are a part of our family and we feel their loss deeply.

My sympathies to you!

I am so sorry about Simon. Our furry family members make our lives more special.

I'm sorry for all the tough times that you have been through lately.

So sorry about Simon. I know losing Simon and Ann this month are huge holes in your life and heart right now. Sending hugs and praying for comfort and peace.

((((((Linda)))))))))

My heart aches for you, Linda. I can just picture Simon sensing your sorrow over Ann and trying to comfort you in his canine way, and hoping he could stay to help his people. It had to be the hardest thing, knowing what you had to do for the love of your pet, and knowing you would be missing him doubly for the loss of his comforting presence after losing Ann. Although it is poor consolation when your heart yearns for those you can no longer hold close, I hope you are able to take some solace from the fact that you are loved by so many people here on LT who grieve for our friend over her losses.

Dear Linda, I am very sad for your loss of your beloved dog, Simon. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this unhappy time. I, too, lost a dog called Simon, and although it was over 20 years ago, I still call him to mind from time-to-time.

All my love and sympathy to you and your husband.

Alan

Dear Linda--My heart goes out to you in your grief. You have been having some hard times lately, and I am so sorry.

Oh, dear, Linda I'm so very sorry about Simon!


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Linda, somehow I thought I had your starred for the year and I just realized I didn't. So I am a little behind on y our thread.. Greatest sympathy for you loss and love the picks.

So sorry to hear about your two losses Linda. Sending good wishes your way!

Thank you to everyone. Your outreach means more than words can express.

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