American Like Me: Reflections on Life Between Cultures

"Writers from diverse ethnic backgrounds ring in on American identity.

Actor and activist Ferrera makes her book debut as editor of this collection of spunky, fresh, and often moving personal essays responding to the question: What do I call an American like me? Because she grew up believing she was “alone in feeling stuck between cultures,” Ferrera sees the book as a way to foster a sense of belonging as well as to celebrate difference. “We live as citizens of a country that does not always claim us or even see us,” she writes, “and yet, we continue to build, to create, and to compel it toward its own promise.” That promise beckoned many writers’ parents or grandparents to make an arduous journey to a new homeland. “For show more my family,” writes Olympic figure skater Michelle Kwan, “the American dream wasn’t just a fairy-tale notion or a meaningless phrase. It has always been real and extremely motivating.” Hoping for a bright future for themselves and their children, Kwan’s parents left China, arriving in the U.S. penniless and knowing no English but certain that “if you work hard and take big risks for what you believe in, you can accomplish anything.” They sacrificed time and money to support Kwan’s passion for ice skating. Other writers include comedians Al Madrigal and Kumail Nanjiani, cookbook author and TV host Padma Lakshmi, transgender advocate Geena Rocero, NBA player Jeremy Lin, actor and documentary filmmaker Ravi Patel, gymnast Laurie Hernandez, and composer and playwright Lin-Manuel Miranda. Some, bullied and mocked as children, wanted to blend into white America, begging for white-bread sandwiches rather than curry in their lunchboxes. Others flaunted their difference. Growing up in Houston, actress Liza Koshy liked “being racially ambiguous. Forever the ethnically mysterious little brown girl.” She saw her Asian and Latino friends not as a melting pot but a salad bowl, “tossed haphazardly together” to produce “something delicious,” each contributing a “special flavor or texture.”

Heartfelt essays from vibrant American voices." www.kirkusreviews.com show less

I listened to this one and it was such a great audiobook. The different chapters were narrated by the writers themselves. And what a wonderfully diverse group of essay writers! I love that they were from so many different ethnicities and cultures and backgrounds. These are not just people who write for a living (of course there are plenty of writers in the mix) but there are also politicians, people in sports (like Michelle Kwan and Jeremy Lin), people on TV/stage/screen (like Padma Lakshmi, Lin Manuel Miranda, and Wilmer Valderrama), activists like transgender advocate Geena Rocero.

They all have amazing stories to tell about being American - some wanted to blend in, wanting those white-bread sandwiches that would help them feel less show more different, others determined to stand out and be different.

Listening to this as an audiobook was a great choice. I loved hearing them read out their stories, and it was nice to put a voice to an unfamiliar name.

As America Ferrera writes: "I believe that culture shapes identity and defines possibility; that it teaches us who we are, what to believe, and how to dream. We should all be able to look at the world around us and see a reflection of our true lived experiences. Until then, the American story will never be complete." show less

It’s hard to give a book of earnest essays about overcoming adversity a negative review, but much of the writing was amateurish and the messages trite (the big exception being Jenny Zhang's hilarious story about her family's obsession with Sizzler).

I confess that I only made it halfway through the book before I gave up, so maybe there are more gems to be found if you have the patience.

This is a book of personal essays by well-known Americans whose lives may not have resembled the stereotypical American (white, Anglo-Saxon, protestant) life. It shows that Americans are diverse and that their stories may seem different, but there are also similarities. Those that told their stories were children of immigrants, Native Americans, transgender Americans, Americans that were members of minority groups, etc. It did a great job redefining what it means to be American and I loved hearing all of the different stories.

1.75 stars. this was definitely not as much as what i had hoped, but is still valuable and worth some time. many of these individual stories aren't written by writers, so they don't carry the weight that maybe they could otherwise, but more importantly to me, they tried to be too funny and too positive. i don't need every story about immigration to be awful and heart breaking, but so many of these stories praised the american dream as possible and it was just a weird take, for me. some of these were really poignant and others not so much.

Digital audiobook read by the various authors

Subtitle: Reflections on Life Between Cultures

America Ferrara is the editor (and contributor) to this collection of essays, written by thirty-two people in the public eye who, like Ferrara, live a life that encompasses more than one culture. Some of the stories are humorous, some heartbreakingly touching. All are honest and poignant and heartfelt.

The audiobook is narrated by each author of his/her own essay. This was very effective for such personal stories.

Probably the most uplifting non-fiction book I've read all year.