Love-Letters Between a Nobleman and His Sister
by Aphra Behn
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The first prominent female writer working in English, author Aphra Behn lived a fascinating life, spending time as a spy for the U.K. before turning her attention to literary pursuits. This novel tells the tale of a young woman who is seduced by her loutish brother-in-law and then goes to extreme lengths to secure their unholy union..
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I really enjoyed this 17th century roman à clef which may have inspired Les Liaisons Dangereuses a century later, one of my all-time favourite classic novels with people behaving very badly indeed. The political bits inspired by true life events toward the end kind of bored me, but I might read what is known as the first English novel again eventually just for the horrid characters who play with romance and each other mercilessly—Aphra Behn obviously delighted in creating these despicable characters and it shows.
At the heart of the story is the real-life incestuous romance between Lord Grey, here known as Philander, and his wife's younger sister, known in the novel as Sylvia. He manages to seduce her with a series of outrageously show more romantic letters (part I is exclusively in epistolary form), and when their romance is discovered, they flee to Holland, with Sylvia pregnant with Philander's child. A clue to Philander's further conduct might be that the word 'philanderer', meaning "a man who readily or frequently enters into casual sexual relationships with women; a womanizer", apparently came to us from this book's character. In real life, there was a court case and a great scandal broke out, so that Behn was forced to transpose the events to France, especially since Lord Grey was involved in further political plots, by backing the Duke of Monmouth in his attempt to overthrow James II. Philander is a despicable character in the book which we come to delight in hating, and we can only guess that he was just as detestable in real life, but it seems he had a great knack for knowing when the tides were about to change and aligning himself with the right powers, so that he always managed to remain in favour and retained great wealth and powers, eventually becoming Lord Justice of the Realm. In the book, he succeeds in turning Sylvia, at first an innocent 17 year-old maiden, into a rapacious money-grubbing female equivalent who goes on to seduce and ruin one rich and beautiful man after another, which I suppose Aphra Behn, a feminist in her time, saw as a victory of sorts for women in those days, considering the few options open to them. show less
At the heart of the story is the real-life incestuous romance between Lord Grey, here known as Philander, and his wife's younger sister, known in the novel as Sylvia. He manages to seduce her with a series of outrageously show more romantic letters (part I is exclusively in epistolary form), and when their romance is discovered, they flee to Holland, with Sylvia pregnant with Philander's child. A clue to Philander's further conduct might be that the word 'philanderer', meaning "a man who readily or frequently enters into casual sexual relationships with women; a womanizer", apparently came to us from this book's character. In real life, there was a court case and a great scandal broke out, so that Behn was forced to transpose the events to France, especially since Lord Grey was involved in further political plots, by backing the Duke of Monmouth in his attempt to overthrow James II. Philander is a despicable character in the book which we come to delight in hating, and we can only guess that he was just as detestable in real life, but it seems he had a great knack for knowing when the tides were about to change and aligning himself with the right powers, so that he always managed to remain in favour and retained great wealth and powers, eventually becoming Lord Justice of the Realm. In the book, he succeeds in turning Sylvia, at first an innocent 17 year-old maiden, into a rapacious money-grubbing female equivalent who goes on to seduce and ruin one rich and beautiful man after another, which I suppose Aphra Behn, a feminist in her time, saw as a victory of sorts for women in those days, considering the few options open to them. show less
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Tutored read: Love-Letters Between A Nobleman And His Sister (Volume III) in Virago Modern Classics (December 2014)
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Aphra Behn is often considered the first Englishwoman to support herself as a writer. She was unquestionably the leading woman playwright of the Restoration period. Behn is also notable for her poetry and fiction. While still in her twenties, she traveled with her family to Surinam, in South America, where she witnessed a slave insurrection, much show more like the rebellion that figures prominently in her novel Oroonoko (1688), a work that introduced the character of the noble savage. Behn was well connected at court and for a brief time was sent to Antwerp as a spy. Around 1670, with the help of John Dryden, she established a career in the theater, and, during the following two decades, rarely was her work absent from the London stage. Among the comedies that bear the special stamp of her libertine, feminist, and Tory political views are The Dutch Lover (1673), The Feign'd Curtezans (1679), and her best-known works, The Rover (1677) and The Rover, Part II (1681). Readers seeking an introduction to the skill and sensibility of Aphra Behn will do well to look into her lyric poetry, which is often represented in recent anthologies of women writers. (Bowker Author Biography) show less
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- Canonical title
- Love-Letters Between a Nobleman and His Sister
- Original title
- Love-Letters Between a Nobleman and His Sister
- Original publication date
- 1684 (Vol I) (Vol I); 1685 (Vol II) (Vol II); 1687 (Vol III) (Vol III)
- People/Characters
- Lady Henrietta Berkeley; Baron Grey of Werke
- First words
- To Sylvia. Though I parted from you resolved to obey your impossible commands, yet know, oh charming Sylvia! that after a thousand conflicts between love and honour, I found the god (too mighty for the idol) reign absolute mo... (show all)narch in my soul, and soon banished that tyrant hence.
Towards the end of September 1682, an extraordinary advertisement appeared in The London Gazette. (Introduction) - Last words
- (Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)Philander lay some time in the Bastille, visited by all the persons of great quality about the Court; he behaved himself very gallantly all the way he came, after his being taken, and to the last minute of his imprisonment; and was at last pardoned, kissed the King's hand, and came to Court, in as much splendour as ever, being very well understood by all good men.
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)This new edition makes that possible for the first time in two hundred years. (Introduction) - Original language
- English
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