50 Reasons to Say "Goodbye"

by Nick Alexander

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Mark is looking for love in all the wrong places. He always ignores the warning signs, preferring to dream, time and again, that he has met the perfect lover until finally, one day... Through fifty vivid snapshots of life as a young gay man in Brighton, Mark takes us on a very funny tour of the modern dating minefield: from s&m nightclubs to chintzy b&bs, from disastrous blind dates to promising internet hookups... It's all here. Wry, touching, witty and honest, 50 Reasons to Say Goodbye is show more a poignant exploration of that long winding road: the universal search for love. show less

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Bembo’s description of Alexander’s writing is right on the money. He is deliberate with his words, lucid and frank in his descriptions. He requires us to distill meaning from the smallest details and allows the essence of each encounter to burst from like a flower, each one different, imperfect in its own way. We are presented with the spirit of the encounters and asked to make our own conclusions. It is the postmodern love story: a man confronted by the world seeks love in so many places, touching the lives of others, but not quite finding the connection he is seeking. Will he ultimately find what he is looking for? Will any of us?

That’s what sequels are for . . .
A novel with very short chapters, each focused on a good-bye of sorts. I think the concept is quite interesting but it's also limiting, there's not room for anything more sustained (friendships, relationships,etc.). The book could have also done with some editing, and less awkward descriptions of new people the protagonist meets.
½
A good, generally uplifting and often funny read about one man's search for love.

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Canonical title
50 Reasons to Say "Goodbye"
Original publication date
2003
People/Characters
Mark
Epigraph
"Each time the losses and deceptions of life teach us about impermanence, they bring us closer to the truth. When you fall from a great height, there is only one possible place to land; on the ground, the ground of truth. And... (show all) if you have the understanding that comes from spiritual practice, then falling is in no way a disaster, but the discovery of an inner refuge."

- Sogyal Rinpoche

"Like a roller in the ocean, life is motion, move on. Like a wind that's always blowing, life is flowing, move on."

- Abba
First words
My father was born in the top floor bedroom of his parents' guesthouse, the mysteriously named "Donnybrook"; my grandmother told me all about it.
Last words
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)And I realise I might be OK after all.
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Boston, Paul

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Genres
Fiction and Literature, LGBTQ+, General Fiction, Romance
DDC/MDS
813Literature & rhetoricAmerican literature in EnglishAmerican fiction in English
LCC
PR6101 .L4936Language and LiteratureEnglishEnglish Literature2001-
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Reviews
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Rating
½ (3.45)
Languages
English, French
Media
Paper, Ebook
ISBNs
3
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