Stuart Stevens

Nothing earthshaking or new at this point. The Republican Party is a power hungry cartel that uses racism to hold its shrinking constituency: white men. But it is interesting to read an insider view and disillusionment story. Also, apparently a known truth is that the more conservative the politician the gayer the staff. Hypocrites, all.

Finally, an honest Republican.

I'm so tired of all the deceit and rampant misinformation coming from politicians and political pundits these days, and to say it's coming from both sides would be utterly disingenuous. The Republican party is hopefully undergoing a reckoning to purge the worst of themselves and rebuild. Let's also hope this course correction is swift and doesn't drag on for decades or, god forbid, generations. Smart liberals should see this Trumpocalypse, a word Atlantic show more columnist David Frum coined, as a good thing because both parties need the checks and balances of the other to survive.

I understand there's a lot more going on in the world that's affecting the political sphere in ways we're only beginning to understand. Ground-shifting events such as the internet, social media and globalization have magnified discourse by exponential degrees, and these are degrees to which our species has never had to deal with before in all our history. This reckoning with the alt-right is both unprecedented but also unsurprisingly common if you're a student of history. The mediums of communications are far more advanced so who's to say how this will all resolve itself.

My favorite part of the whole book is the ending. I won't go into the details but while Mr. Stevens suggests ways to beat back the authoritarians (the answer: steal their power) he never once offers up any hope that this is possible. I don't think he believes it's impossible. I just think he left the question open-ended. We the people get to provide the answer. show less

Interesting and sad read, this. Stuart Stevens, longtime political consultant for the Republican party, writes his "I didn't leave the party, the party left me" tale:

This was my tribe. I did not think them perfect; no man may be a hero to his valet or political consultant. I never pretended to see even glimmers of greatness in most of them, but I did hold out for an assumption of decency. They have proven me wrong, and the sadness I feel is difficult to express.

Main takeaway is that show more Republicans won't give up their authoritarian racist ways until they start losing elections. Let's see what happens. show less

Really wonderful. A memoir that works is a memoir that has magic, some appeal that embraces nostalgia and those special moments that shape people.

I'm not a football fan, but it is still a beautiful book for those who are or aren't because the words 'memoir' and 'father-son' bonding over the sport captures the magic of the game, which even a non-fan could appreciate. This isn't a book about football - it's a book about the bonding of father and son through tradition and indulging in show more something they share, an everyday occurrence that speaks volumes when introduced into their lives and their relationship. The author looks back with fond memories, comparing the present with his father through the game, finding the love and joy still existing. They have changed, they have aged, but the bond is real and true.

As I kept reading, I saw it wasn't so much the game but the moment, that special something a person can't put into words, a touching history and connection the game brings to the families who share it.

Above football, it captured the connection of families and fans from all over, recognizing each other at different games, or meeting strangers and binding on this similarity alone, with no awkwardness, no hesitation, just a connection immediately understood. Stuart Stevens, from Mississippi, went through the book with the catchphrase repeated, Hotty Toddy, the spirit of Ole Miss. He dug into the old southern feel and tradition, not leaving out the racism slant that troubled him as he grew up during integration of the school system. Sometimes I thought this was delved on a little too much, almost to the point of dividing the book into two points instead, but it ultimately blends together to bring a lot of pieces into one large picture.

The author acknowledges how fortunate he is to have the upbringing he had, the parents he has to this day, the life and changes he was blessed with, making a note that it is not always so for others:

"That I had this chance was a pure accident of my birth, being lucky enough to have parents who gave me options. We say that in America anyone can become anything he desires, which is probably more true for us than most countries, but that still doesn't make it true."

The author made the transition painless when going from the past to the present, perhaps because they were already so intertwined and connected. Sometimes its tiresome to me to try continuous time shifts but I didn't notice in this book, for it was done that well. Stevens writes beautifully, wordy when it should be, to the point and on focus other times.

"But that night in Oxford, first in the soft dusk of a hot Mississippi evening and then in the darkness that seemed to last too long, the rioters didn't want the world to watch; they wanted the world to go away."

This isn't a book that will cause a long review, other than to say it was wonderful and beautiful, told through real characters and touching moments. Again, there's magic in memoirs.

I received from Penguin Publishing in exchange for an honest review. show less