David M. Carder

Have used this for bibliotherapy on several occasions. Starts with Bible references then what patterns can lead to the process of a dysfunctional family. Most useful has been the section of "How to Do It Right When You Learned Wrong." My personal earlier years were thrashed through the involvement with a pastoral dysfunctional family. Appendix B is one of the most powerful sections of the book: "Patterns Predicting Pastoral Infidelity." Reading and understanding the impact of such described show more behavior allowed me to heal from "sins of the father," which further inspired me in my doctoral studies.
A priceless book! A wonderful tool for the layman to the professional. A+ show less

I put this book down after reading the first seven chapters. There was some helpful information scattered throughout, but I increasingly distrusted this book on account of repeated bad advice and erroneous opinions stated as facts. I would not recommend this book to anyone dealing with an affair.

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