How to Survive the Loss of a Love

by Peter McWilliams, Harold H. Bloomfield, Melba Colgrove

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Discusses the variety of reactions that people experience because of the loss of a love and provides numerous recommendations for coping with pain and achieving comfort.

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The absolute best book I've ever read for those recovering from a traumatic event -- the death of a loved one, a really bad break-up, the end of a dream. I received a copy after losing my first love and don't know what I would have done without it. This isn't a "traditional" self-help book -- it's not written like a novel. Each page contains one paragraph of information, and the facing page contains a short poem by Peter McWilliams. I don't know how to describe it other than to say it's very powerful -- and very life-changing. Even many years later, I can remember many of those poems. The book itself opens in stating the book is meant to be "used, not read." If you're going through a tough time, get it and use it.
This was an odd book, it was full of poetry and odd advice, I didn't find it useful at all. Although I did like some of the poems.
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very helpful; everyone who has lost a loved one - through separation or other - should read this
Great historical quotes provides a sense of universality.
I LOVE this book. The poems are inspiring.

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Peter McWilliams, born in Detroit in 1949, attended Eastern Michigan University and Maharishi International University where he studied under Maharishi Mahesh Yogi. McWilliams writes poetry and books on personal growth. His titles include "Come Love with Me" and "Be My Life" (poetry), "Surviving the Loss of a Love," "You Can't Afford the Luxury of show more a Negative Thought: A Book for People With any Life-Threatening Illness," "Portraits" (a personal photographic anthology), and "How to Heal Depression." (Bowker Author Biography) show less
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Canonical title
How to Survive the Loss of a Love
Original publication date
1976
Dedication
To All Good. To my Father, whose death when I was four, constituted a near overwhelming loss. To my Mother, Grandparents, and all those perceptive others - then and now - who help me to survive, heal and grow. To Jim Seppa... (show all)la, Sam and Nancy Manser, N. R. F. Maier, Mary Katherine Macdougall, Catherine Knight and To all those who refuse for long to remain deadened, indifferent or uncaring... choosing instead to come alive again.
First words
Let's take a moment to view loss in a larger perspective.
Last words
(Click to show. Warning: May contain spoilers.)I loved, which was purgatory.
I lost, which was hell.
And I survived. Heaven.

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Genre
Nonfiction
DDC/MDS
155.92Philosophy and PsychologyPsychologyDifferential and developmental psychologyEnvironmental psychologySocial Influences
LCC
BF575 .G7 .C64Philosophy, Psychology and ReligionPsychologyPsychologyAffection. Feeling. Emotion

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Reviews
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Rating
½ (3.74)
Languages
English, French, German
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Paper, Audiobook, Ebook
ISBNs
24
ASINs
11